Self-esteem and love life
- 25
- Aug
- 2015
Last week, we talked about self-esteem and today we will continue with the same theme, but will include love life. Why?
Because if you aren’t able to love yourself, to value yourself, if you don’t know yourself, how will you know what’s best for you? And what will the outcome be?
The wrong choice! That’s it! Often for not appreciating yourself, you don’t make the right choices: It’s very easy to please you with the minimum, you don’t impose limits, your partner does what he wants to, he doesn’t value you, and in some cases there are betrayals … and you still don’t do anything about it!
Do you want to have a future different from what I described above?
Marry God! Your marriage with God makes you start to value yourself, to have standards that are not imposed by today’s society, where there is no discipline and decency…
I didn’t accept to marry someone who didn’t believe in what I believe, who didn’t have the same faith, who didn’t fear God! I was sure that God had prepared the best for me, even if I didn’t know when and how it would happen…
Because before wanting to marry a person—I married God! And He confirmed it, He gave me the absolute certainty that he was the right person, and the feelings didn’t control me … When God gives you something—there is no doubt!
Marry God, and only then you will make the right choice in your love life!
Tejumola Adeyemi
14th September 2015 at 17:37
This is really true, when I married God it was the best decision I’ve made and I still need to continue investing in the marriage so that when God gives me the right person, I will know how to go about it, value myself and please my other half.
Thank you for sharing.
Rochelle
11th September 2015 at 15:58
Making God my first husband it was great decision in my life, because I know who I am, my values, I overcome my negative attitude within myself and I know where I am going. All thanks to him ?
Andrea
10th September 2015 at 8:25
I love this message, it is so true, when you marry God, you recognise how valuable you are and more so, not only does He help you find the one He has prepared for you but He will bless you beyond what you imagine.
Emani
9th September 2015 at 21:54
I love this message. Although I am not thinking about getting married yet ( although I think about it and can’t wait ) I totally agree with marrying God first. I never had much value for myself and in the past I would alow boys to control my emotions and how I would feel about myself because I didn’t know my value . But when I truly meet God I found myself. The characteristics And value God has if he doesn’t have the same it’s not worth it because if he is in God the fruits will show .
Jasreen Cargill
7th September 2015 at 7:31
This is so true! Marrying God has been the best decision I have ever made! He revealed to me the deep love, respect and beauty He sees in me so was able to overcome all the insecurities and shows me the kind of man He wants to partner me with. If I didn’t have God as my husband first I would not be the woman I am today.
Ada@bullring
6th September 2015 at 23:44
Thank you so much for this. I agree with the message because when I am marry to God I am so busy with Him, He is the one that will teach me how to value myself because He gave it to me.