My Friend #8 : Validate
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- Dec
- 2015
“Welcome to my Blog, I hope to share with you here a little about me and what I have gone through in my life. Your opinions and comments are more than welcome, so feel free to share them with everyone!”
Viviane Freitas
kerrie
20th May 2019 at 17:39
hi ms viviane
when validating myself i saw that i had not really been examining myself; but more often reliving and getting caught up in my thoughts of the past. that i thought had shoved away in a little box somewhere, forgotten about or dealt with already. this made me sad and i cried as i felt sorry for myself. my new goal is to stop going round in circle.
maybe to face what you know is a problem but feel weak, you have to accept the truth that there is a problem. reach out. talk to God. ask for help to find a way to work on changing mindset from a negative opinion or view to a more positive one. be hopeful. ask him for strength. work on building trust. then aim to keep moving forward.
Phemo Leboane
14th April 2016 at 10:03
Hallo Mrs Viviane, validating myself is not bin easy at all. Since I started on this journey to be my friend I’m constantly seeing how much I have to change. After all the years of thinking I was okay, I know see that I am not. Showing my mistakes hurts, talking about who I am and letting someone into my not so perfect side is not easy. The will to keep going is there though because I’m enjoying the freedom I’m feeling. The weight on my soul is less. I feel pain when having to put my pride aside but this pain goes and then comes a beautiful sense of victory, victory over myself.
Munich, Germany
Bianca
28th February 2016 at 21:13
Hi mrs Vivi
Thank you for the audio,it has helped me to truly understand more about myself. You told us to answer “how do we fight against an issue that were consious of even doe we feel weak?”….well i think that i have to ignore my feelings and persist against the problem by doing the opposite of how i feel. I would have to take myself out of my comfort zone, using my revolt to fuel this action of faith. I belive i would have to face this problem head on instead of running away… it’s a simple answer but takes boldness and courage to practice.
Donna
23rd January 2016 at 22:34
Hello Mrs VIVI, Thank you for your audio’s that are helping me to work towards being a friend to myself.
Mrs VIVI, you asked us what we were running away from and I would like to share something with you that I need help with.
I find it hard to look at people straight in the eyes of people I feel uncomfortable and end up looking away which makes it hard to communicate. This problem is worse when it comes to the opposite sex I fear that they will misinterpret my intentions if I look straight into their eyes and end up looking away.
Gey Levy
19th December 2015 at 10:25
Hi
How are you?
I am from the Holy Land – Israel
I see what you did for others
Can we be in contact.
Regard
Gery