How to be happy in your love life?
- 9
- May
- 2014
Young people usually make bad choices when they rush into making decisions about their love life.
The media, fashion, Internet, parties they attend, influence them and lead them to make decisions based on their emotions. Which usually makes them remain in relationships with the wrong person.
Consequently, they will have disappointments, and bad experiences because no momentary relationship will bring everlasting happiness and fulfillment. Just like no momentary pleasure is able to stabilize or guarantee a real future.
The way you avoid falling into this trap and not being deceived is to be extra careful with your love life.
The youth that wants to be happy has to be cautious, and very careful with the choices they make. Going against any anxiety and waiting for the right age, moment, and of course the right person.
Just as God cares for us, it is necessary for us to be careful with our choices.
FIVE TIPS TO MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE:
– Never judge people by appearance, its often deceiving.
– When you are interested in someone try not to share it with everyone.
– Try not to like someone who doesn’t like you in return. It is a waste of time.
– Never lie. Remember that lying is a disaster in any relationship.
– Always believe in yourself, be sure of whom you are and this will help you avoid problems.
“Casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:7).”
Think about this message, it is wise to wait. Trust in God like I did, and he will surely honor you with the right person just like he honored me.
The person you choose today will be there for the rest of your life.
Hugs!!
Tebogo
30th November 2016 at 14:39
Hi Mrs Vivian ineed your advise iam an assistant for 16 years and married for 10 years and my marriage didn’t work out as the man also was the mail assistance as well . I decided to leave as he was cheating 3 times with different women and that broke my heart badly in a way that felt bad about myself as when isaw those beautiful woman better than me iwas ashamed and felt valueless .my questions is is been 2 years on my own with my kids by my side and I have been dedicating myself to the work if God by being busy so to find the right man how should iknow if is the right one and will he be able to accommodate my 2 kids
Faith Gimase
18th October 2014 at 14:34
Thank you for sharing this information about relationship,before I came to UCKG I made a lot of wrong decisions and mistakes in my past relationship that left me heart broken and about to loose hope in life but I came to church and I started learning how to believe in myself,I discovered who I am and that God loves me and I can’t compare his love with anything and I should seek first Gods love and a mans love will come automatically right now am still single and very happy praying,waiting for God and he will surely answer my prayers and bless my love life……Thank you Mrs Vivi
alexia
15th October 2014 at 9:41
Very valuable. I will be sure to keep this in mind. Especially the part of not telling everyone when intrested in someone. Along with believding in my self l.