My Friend #2 : How do you work with your Friend?

Hi Vivi,

I had to listen this twice to catch the details, I admit this isn’t a task to do all in one day but my experience I’m analysing myself in parts as I’m answering the questions. So far, the more time I’m taking to do this task I’m seeing myself more. My roots are thick and one I would like to share is that my mum has done great things to make her mother of her proud and when I do something that displeases her. She keeps reminds me when she was my age she was already doing so much. When she said this recently to me, though the end result ended me in tears it was like I understood why I was so tough on myself. Also the reason why I’m so down is because I have been feeding myself negative thoughts and feelings that things are horrible and etc.

I don’t blame my mum for anything !! She just wants teach me, this I can genuinely. However, it is tough but this is the root I’m learning to fight against

Good afternoon,

Thank you so much for this Mrs Viviane, I’ve learnt that I do need to be patient with myself. I tend to put a lot of pressure on myself to be the best or I look to others and desire to be where they are especially spiritually speaking and their blessings but I must be patient and speaking of this, this all relates to my past which sometimes I do not wish to go down to the root, but it is something that I must do in order to over come the problem, by asking why.

Thank you very much miss viviane I start listening to your massages by my pastor wife, this massage helps me to see that I don’t care much about myself i care more about others I will encourage others but for me I don’t care much I think am a faired of what i may discover about myself.