Assistant who waits to be rewarded…

Luisa Teixeira

  • 12
  • Nov
  • 2015

Assistant who waits to be rewarded…

  • 12
  • Nov
  • 2015

In a conversation with Mrs.Viviane Freitas, we spoke of a very serious and real issue that exists in the middle of the “body” of assistants.

We commented on the intention and how we can in a very subtle way go stray from the real focus, which is to serve in order to please God and not ourselves.

The fact is that we need to be vigilant and the Lord Jesus has left us an alert. Let’s read together His warnings to avoid falling into sin and some day-to-day examples:

Matthew Chapter 6

1 ” “Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven.”
Example: Many assistants want to show the pastor holiness that she is more righteous, more fearful, more servant, more willing than others. They have a disproportionate need to prove who they are for men in order to be approved and accepted. They want to be seen and recognized!

2 ” “So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full.”
Example: When they bring someone to church, they do not rest until the pastor does not know, as if it were a trophy. It does not mean that they should not present their guest, but that this does not fill their interior of personal glory.
When cleaning the house of God, they only feel good when they are taking into consideration to clean prominent places and still make it a point to show that they are being “used”

3 ” But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing…”

Example: When the assistant does something for God, however simple or complex it may be, she should not praise or show HERSELF that she was chosen or is capable to perform such work. But must ignore the strength of her arm, as if she was not the one whose done it.

4 “… so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.”

5 “And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full.”

Many assistants fall into the error of praying as “religious”, trying to show a faith, appearing to be very “powerful”. But when they are behind the scenes at home, or elsewhere, that faith is like a “straw” that turns off by the fire of the daily routine.

Many think that it is not happening with them, but if we look deeply within ourselves we will see in various day-to-day situations, the examples that were mentioned above and these are just the tip of the iceberg.

Perceive your needs and solve your issues, because notice how the phrases end:

“Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full.”

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21 comentários

  1. Hello Mrs.,
    It is truly a trap if we are serving God for other motives. From the examples you gave it is very difficult to continue serving without getting recognition for yourself. But what to do when people praise you when you excel?

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  2. Thank you mrs. Luisa,

    Being rewarded by God is so much better than being rewarded by men.

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  3. As I read this post, I found myself questioning myself as I reflected as to whether or not I was looking for praise instead of doing what I was given to do my best because it was for my God. As I was reflecting I remembered what many Pastors and Pastors Wives have shared with us helpers and it has stuck with me: “If anyone was to look at themselves and say “I am the only one able to do this” and boast or look down on another realize that the moment you are not there God would use another to do what you do and probably do it better. Just think if he used a donkey when he wanted! How much easier would it be for God to use anyone”. I thank God for hearing that many years ago…and I want to say thank you for touching on such a profound subject may it help many stay on the correct path.

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  4. This post mentions a lot of what I used to do, considering the fact that I still want to be raised in the church. But I changed my ways before I fell into the pit. Thank you for posting about such a major issue, we need to hear about this more often, if not daily. To remind us of who we’re serving. Let’s do it for the glory and honor of God people.

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  5. I do all things for the glory of God, not to be seen by men, the moment I do to please men, it is no longer pleasing in God’s eyes, because I seek recognition, and all things are done for the glory of God, our reward is eternal, if He is not seen, and we are working for eternal life, we are not to live to impress, because our reward is at hand

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  6. The message is too strong Mrs Vivi.I understood by reading the passage that I have to always watch myself in the work of God and correct myself when i see that now im not doing this for God but for the eyes of people.I alsow understood that,being active for the public eye wont benefit you in anyway at the end,instead it destroys you.God wants us to serve him with good intensions not for pastor so and so and for members or to be called the ”BEST ASSISTANT’no!.Therefore we have to watch our doing’s,if we are doing for God or for a reward or for someone to see.

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