Why haven’t I changed yet? I
I am already aware of my mistake, so why haven’t I changed yet? I’m getting frustrated and don’t know what else to do.
You haven’t changed yet because when you’re in a cozy place you forget about the seriousness of the situation.
But why does the person forget so easily?
The problem is that she is being driven by the circumstances rather than evaluating things with her intellect, because if she did then she wouldn’t forget.
Because she didn’t use her head, but rather used her feelings she soon forgets. That’s why she doesn’t go forward and continues to defeat her problem.
Note that those who don’t reason can’t be defined and much less resolve anything! In other words, those who live by feelings live undefined and therefore postpone their happiness until…. they can’t take it any longer and reaches the conclusion that they have to act with intelligence.
Friend, evaluate your situation and don’t let yourself be lead by your feeling. If you let your emotions control you, your mind won’t use reason, since emotions obstruct your understanding.
You have to learn to think and be willing to find the truth.
There are many people that have been in the church for many years and are discouraged, they’ve surrendered to the easy things in life all because they simply don’t want to take the trouble to think.
Do you know why?
Because they don’t want to recognize their errors and start all over again, but they give themselves the “luxury” of wanting to overcome without any effort.
It’s important to be clear that for change to happen you can’t depend on anyone else. The only one that can change is you.
After all who needs it?