My Friend #5 : Communication
- 11
- Nov
- 2015
“Welcome to my Blog, I hope to share with you here a little about me and what I have gone through in my life. Your opinions and comments are more than welcome, so feel free to share them with everyone!”
Viviane Freitas
Yvette Ihemesinwa
10th November 2018 at 22:55
Hello Mrs Vivi. I’m from London and I’m doing the weekly tasks with the help of an assistant from my church. I have to admit, when it comes to transparent communication, I’m not comfortable with the concept at all, especially at work. For me to feel comfortable speaking openly to someone, I’m always afraid that others might take my truest thoughts the wrong way or I might make a mistake whilst interacting with others. Communication is not something I’m good at and it makes me very self conscious. Even up until now, I struggle to overcome this, so I tend to stay in my own little bubble/world and avoid expressing myself, especially at work, so I find it hard to grow in my career as well as I should.
Rochelle James
6th August 2018 at 9:57
It’s very true what you are saying Mrs Viviane. It’s important to invest in myself not only the outer appearance but inside of myself.
Thank you once again
Anita Isioma Chukwuma
23rd March 2016 at 11:18
Thanks Mrs Vivian, before now i don’t communicate well with people only those around me. I feel if someone does not speak to me it means she does not like me. Thanks i will practice all you said, i will fight that inner me and be better
Sheneka
18th February 2016 at 13:27
It’s very true what you said Mrs Viviane
Whilst listening to the message I saw that for years I have been finding it very hard to communicate with people especially my mum. I was never really able to tell her what I was going through so I just kept everything within myself.
I have also seen that with me I began to adopt other people’s characteristics because I wasn’t happy with my own character as I was always the quiet one when a lot of people gathered together.
It has come to point where I don’t think I know who I am anymore
From the time I have come to the church I have change myself on the outside from the way I dress etc but I haven’t changed from within which I know is the most important part to change about myself.
Phemo Viola
21st January 2016 at 22:26
Hallo Mrs Viviane
I want to learn to communicate but I first have to get over the problem of thinking too much about what others think of me. I also worry too much about not pleasing the other person. I want to change this about me so I can be free. Its exhausting and I want to stop.
Munich, Germany
Elisabeth
7th January 2016 at 1:59
Good evening Mrs. Viviane, I have noticed that I do not participate in many conservations involving more persons. I just listen to what they are saying, but I add nothing to it. I don’t give and communicate, because I am afraid to say something stupid, which will make me feel ashamed and that’s because of the pride inside my heart. I have accept that I am not perfect, but that’s hard and then I run away into my own world (thoughts). Thank you Viviane for this audio. I discover more things about myself through this.