My Friend #3 : Communicative
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- Oct
- 2015
“Welcome to my Blog, I hope to share with you here a little about me and what I have gone through in my life. Your opinions and comments are more than welcome, so feel free to share them with everyone!”
Viviane Freitas
kerrie
27th February 2019 at 15:24
good afternoon,
so far this process has been a challenge, and have had to face a hard truth about myself: have a lot of pride. which i used to cover up how much all the abuse and trauma i suffered actually hurt me. i hid behind a mask, had multiple personality and hid everything by not talking and developing many habits that i felt are the only way to keep safe. this has caused me problems. now recently have been forced to step up and start speaking since my life is stuck and i got accused of unfortunate incidents that i am not responsible for. ultimately i guess i am ashamed of myself.
Yvette Ihemesinwa
13th February 2019 at 0:04
When I wrote about my childhood it was very hard and painful for me. I had a very abusive childhood, where I faced a lot of domestic abuse for many years, even inside of the church. Just very recently I decided to get away from all that, but deep down I’m still affected by all the traumas many years of abuse had caused. I could never move forward in my relationship with God and with others because I never faced the traumas head on. I just kept them hidden from me because they have caused me so much pain. But since I did, I understand myself and my behaviours a lot more. I really have discovered MANY things, and I understand myself much better. Thanks a lot.
marcia
31st August 2017 at 8:51
Hello Mrs vivianne. Thank you so much for allowing God using you. I am in a process of discovering if i am being a Virtous woman and through these audios i have discovered things about myself. I have realised i am more of a friend to others than i am to myself. Everytime i find myself over thinking about a situation that has happened i always think to myself A I being a friend to myself by contuing to hurt myself about what someone said to me that hurt me. I asked myself a question because i notice whenever someone hurts me i intend to run away from that person but i realise the more i run away the more i am hurting myself i need to face the person or else it can lead to a grudge. Didnt want to face the person incase i get hurt again. I will continue to hear these audios because i believe God it going to lead me to become the virtious woman he wants me to be. God bless you