My Friend #15 : Trauma
- 20
- Jan
- 2016
“Welcome to my Blog, I hope to share with you here a little about me and what I have gone through in my life. Your opinions and comments are more than welcome, so feel free to share them with everyone!”
Viviane Freitas
Yvette
20th May 2019 at 22:01
Hello Mrs Vivianne. I know it’s been 3 years since this audio has been uploaded, but I’m glad I listened to these audios. Its not easy for me to face my past because it’s been full of pain and many years of abuse. I’ve been crying a lot because of all the pain I relived since childhood. More than anything else I really want to see myself changing and overcoming these traumas. I’m still in the process but I’m seeing the truth for myself, and it’s helping me a lot.
Ernah
14th July 2016 at 8:23
Hi Mrs Vivi,
I can relate to what you spoke about the traumas, in my early years i was a person full of confidence but when i came to church, in the early years of my faith i was using emotional faith instead of my intelligent one so because of this i ended up getting married because i was always tempted to fall into fornication, so my heart deceived me, it will say to me just get married but i was not spiritually mature to use the spirit of discernment.Because i thought this person i am dating is the church but he was not born again. In my marriage i suffered verbal abuse and i am a person who is closed up inside, keeping everything inside and this cause me to have a stroke and i got sick as well…..i suddenly lost all the confidence, i had low self esteem i always look at others bodies and i envy them wishing i could look like them i have been having this feeling for the past ten years although being in the church, i was not taking the teachings seriously by putting them into practice so that my life could change i was very arrogant and stubborn as well so i suffered so long….until this year is when i decided to use my intelligent faith i asked myself how long will i keep being disobedient, now i am fighting using my faith instead of listening to the negative voices i use the word of God, what He promised to do….I believe He will restore my body and my health because its a promise and He never fail, now I have this assurance inside of me that gives me strength to look to God my father, my creator.
Thank you for being patient always ready to teach may God bless you.
maria
23rd February 2016 at 16:21
Good morning ms vivan.
I love hearing your message.
I have been in church for many years and its hard for me to make friends. I am a very friendly person in the church that I go to people speak to me and I speak back to them. but I’m not comfortable with change. I’ve always been like that in my life even in my household with my husband I’m not comfortable with changes so I just entered the ghallywood rush and we’ve been having our monthly meeting in the headquarters and is a lot of women There that I wish I could speak to I just don’t know how to speak to them I don’t know how to come up with a conversation I know that might sound crazy. I just don’t know how to express myself I don’t know how to communicate with people and I joined this group because I knew that I needed help with this I want to serve God more and communicate and help people but I just don’t know how to start please help me and how you think I should start communicating with people so I can have friends because I don’t have friends I have people that I say hi and bye to but I officially don’t have no friends and its been like that for many years.
Samantha
21st February 2016 at 21:23
Mrs Viviane, you don’t know how much this series is helping to understand myself better. Your message today about traumas really relate to me the symptoms and even the examples you gave about being closed, etc is how I react because of what I went through in the past. I understand that I need to take an action and attitude to not accept but to use my faith and not my feelings. Thank you for sharing
bianca
12th February 2016 at 6:58
Mrs the wounds is just so deep. im trying but its hard. sometimes when i get a flash back, the tears is bursting out. being bullied emotionally at school for more then 11 years is hard. i had no1 to talk to. my whole family was bullied. i sometime cried with my mother. their was a time, for years i cried myself to sleep. i tried to commit suicide 2 times cos i couldn’t stand it anymore.
Maggie
11th February 2016 at 23:59
Dear Mrs Viviane,
I think today its time for me to comment. your not going to believe this but last week I wrote my comment and was about to post it but didn’t. In that comment I wanted to let you know that I have been reading and listening to your blog for a very long time and this may actually be my first comment.
In saying this, I wanted to share with you that I didn’t know how to search within myself before but now I am learning to do so. Today whilst listening to your audio about trauma, I realised a few things inside of me that I need to work on removing. I used to think that I didn’t have issues inside of me, but after going through a few experiences I realised how insecure I was as a person.
I look forward to your audios and I am getting a diary to start writing all of my thoughts on.