My Friend #12 : Comparison
- 30
- Dec
- 2015
“Welcome to my Blog, I hope to share with you here a little about me and what I have gone through in my life. Your opinions and comments are more than welcome, so feel free to share them with everyone!”
Viviane Freitas
Yvette Ihemesinwa
7th March 2019 at 18:52
Hello Mrs Vivianne,
Thanks for these podcasts, they’ve helped me a lot more than I ever expected. They’ve been helping me with my deliverance, which is something I’ve struggled with for a very long time. For many years I’ve compared myself to others, especially my sisters. They were loud and more sociable and outgoing, and I was more quiet and reserved. People used to compare me to them and I felt like a loser. I didn’t like myself and I saw myself as a burden. I pushed myself and studied hard at school and got one of the best grades to prove that I wasn’t a burden and that Im capable. Without me realising, I brought this complex to the church, and even up until now I still compare myself to others, especially my friends in the church who grew spiritually faster than I have. I often find myself looking down on myself. I really want to stop this.
okuhle
30th May 2017 at 11:14
thank you so much Mrs Viviane ,it happens a lot to me to compare my self with people around me and that builds an enemy to my own self ,but now i will learn not to compare myself and be friend with my self
thank you so much for the message i learnt and will practise to be my own friend and not compare my self.
Meryl(Mauritius)
12th April 2016 at 10:10
Hello miss Vivi thank you so much for that audio so help
True ,me too before that happens to be like to compare me to other and was so hard to live why because I always have evil eyes toward others .i was facing hard moment I still remember that moment ,this suitation I was is not to change other but to change myself and then I realize lots of bad thing inside of me and I decided to ask forgiveness to God and to be humble .. Then I was free and different person till now humble ,before I like to make competition with other girls now no I make competition with myself to be a better and to change myself even if I gave because I like to give . All things I do ,I do it for God and only god know the effort I make to please and to have am interior to please him
Christine
26th January 2016 at 7:34
Thank you so much Mrs Freitas, I’m so thankful because God revealed to me why I compare myself so much, this audio allowed me to step out of myself and search why I was comparing myself to people in the church or Mrs Renate, it was because my mum always use to say to me ‘look at your big sister, you should be like her’ or ‘other children don’t behave like you do’ this made be compare and look up to a family friend my mum use to say I should be like and my big sister because so was so beautiful and slim and I wasn’t like this, even friends I use to have would compare me to her. This gave an idea that I wasn’t good enough so I would have jealousy inside of me, lost my identity trying to be like my sister. Thank so much again because I forgive my mum for what she said because even I say things to my little brother to compare him to other people now I know now why I compare myself and now I know who I am and what I should do to break free from this jealousy and comparison.