Grudge, grudge what do I want you for?
- 11
- Sep
- 2015
A grudge is so evil that it can pass from a mother to a child, without her not even noticing it.
I always compare a grudge to cancer, which keeps on sprawling and destroying people. It’s a feeling that only hurts those who feel and keep it, capable of ruining a future, preventing from reaching dreams, frustrating objectives and most importantly, it can lead to the loss of salvation.
Dear Mom, whatever the situation may have been, it’ll never be worth keeping this feeling, as a form of revenge. Understand once and for all, that who loses is only you. And as if that weren’t enough, you even convey all this dirtiness to your child that could and certainly deserves a healthy spiritually life, free of all this evil.
Forgiveness brings freedom! Thus, free yourself and your child, take action and sacrifice this feeling, because this sacrifice is what will ensure your faith.
Asha Anofienem
23rd September 2015 at 7:56
Yes…I had immense grudges towards my mother in the past because of past traumas, which led to me leaving my family house at a young age, disown her and my two younger sisters and staying away from the family for over ten years.
Grudge is a horrid, engulfing state, that wants and needs to be fed daily; and leaves you in a state of uninhabited rage that renders you void, exasperated and lonely. When you finally give it the eviction notice and then remove it, it becomes easier to focus on important good things.
Your blog is a blessing and a must read.
Asha
London
Hellena Gusinyu
20th September 2015 at 21:14
Thank you Mrs Viviane for sharing this message for me I can speak about it because I have been going through this problem the day I asked for forgiveness I was free and that peace I had this was something I shared with my children to show what God wants from his children.
Sandra Bell
19th September 2015 at 18:05
I agree and this was actually what I had to do when I started at the helpcentre to forgive my family and let go of those grudges and what a different it made. I felt free begun to grow and change.
Tolu Onakoya
18th September 2015 at 10:43
Thank you for sharing Mrs Viviane as, this was a reminder that holding grudges don’t hurt the person who may have upset me but, rather it hurts me even more and worse of all if I don’t get rid of it, can take me to hell.
I must ensure that I never hold a grudge or seek revenge against someone that may have upset me but, instead speak to this person to iron out the issues as, well as pray for this person and myself .
salihatou
18th September 2015 at 6:54
Yes miss this is true. Sometimes we mothers intende to make our children mini us in everything without realizing the are innocent and cannot be part of our characters. With the help of the Holly Spirit it can’t change. I must sacrife for this.
Karema Henderson
18th September 2015 at 6:17
Thank you for sharing, I didn’t realized that a grudge can transfer from a mother to a child wow this is strong it comes like a sickness that spead. This is slaver and for sure this is why we need to forgive to free ourselve out of the devils trap it is so nice to forgive but when you sit with the grudge you get tarment with all types of feelings.