Youth : What is the first thing I should invest in?
- 12
- Mar
- 2015
“After reading this post I had a doubt. If I don’t have a stable financial life then it’s best not to start dating? But doesn’t our sentimental come second after our encounter with God? I, for example study engineering and I am still not stable financially, does this mean that if someone comes along I shouldn’t start dating? I’m a little confused, because if that’s true then shouldn’t our financial life come in second place.”
I received this message in response to the previous post and I think many also have this same question.
In order to date you must have money and in order to have money you have to invest in your financial life. However, when you invest in your financial life you will lose the strength to invest in your sentimental life, right? No!
Financial achievements happen through faith. When you believe in an idea (for example, a course you want to take), then you go for it (you take the course, work, etc.) and you will reap the faith you have sowed. Simple! Whoever sows sparingly reaps sparingly and those who sow abundantly will reap abundantly.
When you invest in your sentimental life it’s different. Because when I decide to dedicate myself to my sentimental life I am also investing in my spiritual life.
For example: I can use my faith to find the best guy in the world, but if I’M not a good wife, if I haven’t resolved all my traumas and complexes, and if I don’t have a close communion with God, I will not be happy with him, why? Because I’M not true happiness.
Investing in your sentimental life is not to go around looking for the ideal person, or expecting to find “Prince Charming”, or to dream about scenarios of a great love story. Investing in your sentimental life is to invest in yourself, invest in your worth as a woman of God. It’s learning to deal with your feelings, learning how to use your faith when your emotions speak louder, because you will need to have this as a base in a marriage.
When you dedicate yourself to work on your spiritual life you are investing in your eternal life, in your communion with God and this is the most important area of our life. Your love life is so important because it can further develop your communion with God or destroy it completely, hence why they are so closely linked.
Your love life is very important and you should be attentive to it.
Leave your comments on today’s article.
Until next time!!
monica
17th March 2015 at 5:39
is true indeed i wil put improvement to invest in my love life this is what i need to hear en now i wil put it in pratice.thank you mrs.kisses & hug
Ashley Vazquez
16th March 2015 at 18:30
The blog spoke to me having to do with my financial and dating. I have a big problem within me deciding what to do with my partner: if we should be together or not. This blog helps me figure out what i have to do to myself, in order to have our life stable.
Jéssica
15th March 2015 at 14:49
Bom eu diria que primeiro lugar investir na vida Espiritual que assim as demais sera acrescentada..
Djamila Baptista
14th March 2015 at 6:18
this matter of overconing traumas and bettering yourself within, is vital and it is an import investment to start concentrating on before going into a relationship. I agree that faith should be our base for our relationship, because we tend to be more sentimental in a relationship and that is not the right way to go about it, emotions does not make anything better in life, in fact it just worsens things.
vuyokazi.waka
13th March 2015 at 8:14
wow thanks for the message because i have been investing in my spiritual and not wanting to invest in my love life simply because i think that it is going to disturb me from focusing on encounter with God.
Lindeka Nyaba
12th March 2015 at 10:39
Thank you very much for the post, it has been an eye-opener to me, what I have learnt I will apply to avoid having to lose the most important Treasure because of ignorance, making God the centre of my attention means He will guide me into giving the right attention to my partner and our relationship will be a blessing to our Spiritual relationship with God.