My Friend #4 : Transparent Communication
- 4
- Nov
- 2015
“Welcome to my Blog, I hope to share with you here a little about me and what I have gone through in my life. Your opinions and comments are more than welcome, so feel free to share them with everyone!”
Viviane Freitas
kerrie
27th March 2019 at 15:23
hello Mrs Viviane
my reaction to what i heard about the truth and being transparent made me shake. it did not hurt as much as i thought it would. what has stopped me from being truthful to myself is because of the fear of acknowledging my like and interest in the unusual and anything dark. because of this interest it got me trapped. in a game. now i am frightened that am the bad character have been made out to be.
Lydia Fyffe Jamaica
4th February 2016 at 14:31
Miss Vivi i am so happy for these audio’s . I have realize how i havent been communicative with myself neither have i been original and how i try pleasing people with my words. Glory to God and i thank you for everything . may God continue using you more kisses and hugs to you
phemo Leboane
24th November 2015 at 20:10
Hello mrs Viviane, what you said here today is a perfect description of how I am. I am in the proccess already of changing because I have had pastors wifes who would tell me I was superfacial and I was too perfect and showed no errors. Hidding is something I have become an expert at, pulling a smile when inside of me a storm is going on. I am very good at paying attention to others behaviour, so over the years I have learned how am suppose to behave in public as a happy wife,good mother,nice friend and e.t.c and I would use that to hide my pain, insecurities and fears. I have suffered a lot alone because I chose not to be transparent. I avoided having close friends because I did not want anyone invading my life, the ones who showed interest in me, I would end up distansing myself from and not calling them because I hated being asked how I was.
For a while now I have started talking openly to my pastor’s wife. I still have a long way to go, my pride is my greatest enemy at the moment but I know I will make it because I want to.
Munich, Germany
Norma
20th November 2015 at 7:07
Hello Mrs Viviane . I am in need of your help. I am a person who grew up looking down upon myself. When i was still at school i was always the least and last one not because i was not intelligent but because i was looking down upon myself. It all changed the moment i came to the church. God showed me how important and valuable i am. Since the time i came to Jesus i never accepted to be the least and to my surprise i realised that i am an intelligent person. I now know that i can do all things through Christ who strengthen me i do not accept to be a failure. In all that i do i try to give my best because i know my God is great so He deserve the best. The fact that i give my best in all that i do i end up being a threat to people around me. At times i do not know how to handle situations like that because i face rejections. My intention is not to always stand out amongst others but i do not accept to do anything for God,myself or others anyhow so i give my best. I am a servant of God for example i do not accept to evangelise,counsel people , take care of others at home, cook or clean etc anyhow.At times i decide to hide myself so as to avoid being on the spotlight but it affects me a because i will be hiding the real me..I am in need of your help.
So far the messages on the audios are opening my eyes on how to be a friend to myself.Thank you.
Kisses.