Assistant : Assistant with high heels
- 15
- Jan
- 2015
Who is the assistant with high heels?
– It is the one who knows everything and thinks that she doesn’t need to learn anymore;
– Does everything “right”, because she doesn’t want to be frowned upon before others;
– It is the one that even says yes with her head when rebuked, but within herself she holds a fixed idea that she is right;
– Wants to standout in everything, and only what she does is right;
– Only she knows how to clean, organize and straighten-out;
– Sees defects in everything and everyone but herself;
– Sees herself as the only one with the right to assume responsibility; others do not have the same condition as her;
– Sees herself irreplaceable;
– She cherishes her position the most, that is why she will do anything to achieve her purpose;
– Does everything, even hide the truth in order not to lose her reputation;
– Her goal is to standout and to be praised;
– Ultimately, she lives to be the center of attention and when she is not recognized she gets frustrated.
And to make it even more clear, all this happens without anyone else knowing … even she doesn’t realize her condition, because she is so used to her way that she doesn’t notice it… it is something that is deep within her.
Today’s article for the assistants is one more warning, not to condemn, but to examine yourself and see if you are really not walking in “high heels”, spiritually speaking. If you really identified yourself with what was mentioned above … than STEP DOWN from your HEELS, before it’s too late.
How did you see today’s article? It’s serious, isn’t?
Desiree Da Silva
24th January 2015 at 5:09
Very serious indeed Dona, for sure I will be examining myself after reading that. Thank you for sharing.
Sandra Ulume
23rd January 2015 at 22:16
Wow this is very serious and the simple fact that it can happen with us not even assuming that we are like that is even worse. This post has really helped me examine my ways as an assistants looking out for things that I may have that could make me an assistant with high heels.
Thanks for this eye opening post Mrs Luisa x
Agnes Smith
23rd January 2015 at 19:49
Very good warning, it is easy for any of us to get caught up in these thoughts. We have to be real with ourselves, but like you said, not condemn ourselves, we just have to be simple and change it. We have to realize that the acknowledgment of others and accomplishments are not what’s important. Its about being an obedient servant to our first love.
Felleng
23rd January 2015 at 19:08
Surely even if one is unaware of their “high heels” but by reading this,one can be able to do an introspection. God loves it when we are made to see our mistakes and swallow pride and fix them.
May Mestidio
21st January 2015 at 23:12
We cannot be proud.
May Mestidio
21st January 2015 at 22:51
Amen Mrs. Luisa, It is true. Sometimes we are so set in our ways that we think we know it all and does not need anyone anymore. We forget that by acting and behaving this way we are losing out because the truth is we don’t know everything and there is always something new to learn, opportunities to improve. May we remain humble and learn. Have the attitude of a servant of our Lord Jesus.