{"id":20219,"date":"2015-10-16T11:26:18","date_gmt":"2015-10-16T11:26:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/?p=20219"},"modified":"2015-11-10T11:44:02","modified_gmt":"2015-11-10T11:44:02","slug":"soyez-la-mere-que-votre-enfant-a-besoin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/2015\/10\/16\/soyez-la-mere-que-votre-enfant-a-besoin\/","title":{"rendered":"Soyez la m\u00e8re que votre enfant a besoin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>J\u2019\u00e9cris toujours: \u00ab \u00a0Soyez la m\u00e8re que votre enfant a besoin\u00a0\u00bb, mais qu\u2019est-ce que cela signifie?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Pendant longtemps, j\u2019ai \u00e9t\u00e9 la m\u00e8re que je voulais \u00eatre, que je trouvais correct et bien pour mon enfant. J\u2019ai eu un papa, lieutenant de la police, ceci dit, un g\u00e9n\u00e9ral dans la maison, et de cette fa\u00e7on, je voulais \u00eatre avec mon fils: dure, autoritaire, exigeante\u2026 Imaginez! Pour la maman d\u2019un fils autiste, atteindre que son fils \u00e9coute, fasse au moment o\u00f9 elle demande\u2026 une terreur, le pauvre!<\/p>\n<p>Cependant, j\u2019ai souffert plus que lui-m\u00eame, j\u2019ai d\u00fb me \u00ab\u00a0briser\u00a0\u00bb par complet, au point de m\u2019assoir\u00a0pendant\u00a0que\u00a0mon\u00a0fils\u00a0se\u00a0tortillait\u00a0en\u00a0crise, par terre et en larmes dire: \u00ab \u00a0Je me rend!\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Par amour de lui, en voyant que ma posture finirai par perdre mon enfant; perdre l\u2019opportunit\u00e9 de m\u2019approcher de lui et pouvoir l\u2019aider. J\u2019ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de changer totalement ma vie.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Mes connectes ont \u00e9t\u00e9 enlev\u00e9s, mon \u00ab\u00a0\u00e9go\u00a0\u00bb et mon savoir \u00e9galement, car j\u2019ai reconnu que cela ne m\u2019aidais pas. Avec l\u2019esprit et le coeur d\u00e9pouill\u00e9 de moi-m\u00eame, j\u2019ai pu alors recevoir de Dieu les directives que v\u00e9ritablement aideraient mon fils.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e8s alors, j\u2019ai connu et j\u2019ai d\u00e9couvert mon fils!<\/p>\n<p>Tout en moi a chang\u00e9, de la fa\u00e7on de parler \u00e0 la fa\u00e7on de regarder mon fils, Gabi. J\u2019ai compris quels \u00e9taient ses n\u00e9cessit\u00e9s et j\u2019ai pu travailler pour les combler.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s tout, si nous sommes uniques, diff\u00e9rents les uns des autres, comment puis-je vouloir utiliser les m\u00eames m\u00e9thodes d\u2019\u00e9ducation qu\u2019ont \u00e9t\u00e9 utilis\u00e9s avec moi? Ou \u00eatre de la m\u00eame fa\u00e7on avec tous mes enfants? Pas de tout!<\/p>\n<p>Chaque personne est d\u2019un fa\u00e7on et chaque personne a ses besoins sp\u00e9cifiques.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Celui-ci, a \u00e9t\u00e9 mon \u00ab\u00a0secret\u00a0\u00bb comme m\u00e8re: me nier moi-m\u00eame, arr\u00eater de faire et d&rsquo;\u00eatre ce que je voulais, afin de pouvoir descendre au niveau visuel et mentale de mon fils, et devenir un seul. C\u2019est \u00e0 cela, que je me r\u00e9f\u00e8re lorsque je vous dit: \u00ab\u00a0Soyez la m\u00e8re que votre enfant a besoin!\u00a0\u00bb.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Chaque personne est d\u2019un fa\u00e7on et chaque personne a ses besoins sp\u00e9cifiques. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":20220,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[42,24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20219","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-de-mere-pour-mere","category-famille"],"better_featured_image":{"id":20220,"alt_text":"","caption":"","description":"","media_type":"image","media_details":{"width":1900,"height":748,"file":"2015\/10\/DMM_seja_mae-1900x748.jpg","sizes":{"thumbnail":{"file":"DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/10\/DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-150x150.jpg"},"medium":{"file":"DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-300x118.jpg","width":300,"height":118,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/10\/DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-300x118.jpg"},"large":{"file":"DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-1024x403.jpg","width":1024,"height":403,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/10\/DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-1024x403.jpg"},"mini-thumbnail":{"file":"DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-110x110.jpg","width":110,"height":110,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/10\/DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-110x110.jpg"},"big-medium":{"file":"DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-320x220.jpg","width":320,"height":220,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/10\/DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-320x220.jpg"},"post-thumbnail":{"file":"DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-825x325.jpg","width":825,"height":325,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/10\/DMM_seja_mae-1900x748-825x325.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":0,"credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":0,"copyright":"","focal_length":0,"iso":0,"shutter_speed":0,"title":"","orientation":0}},"post":20219,"source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/10\/DMM_seja_mae-1900x748.jpg"},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.0 - 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