{"id":19981,"date":"2015-08-21T12:13:36","date_gmt":"2015-08-21T12:13:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/?p=19981"},"modified":"2015-11-10T11:45:40","modified_gmt":"2015-11-10T11:45:40","slug":"linvisible-anxiete","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/2015\/08\/21\/linvisible-anxiete\/","title":{"rendered":"L’invisible anxi\u00e9t\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"

Un jour, on m’a dit que j\u2019\u00e9tais anxieuse, ? \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0, j’ai pens\u00e9: <\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00ab Moi, anxieuse? \u00bb<\/strong><\/p>\n

Honn\u00eatement, je ne pensais pas que je l’\u00e9tais, mais j\u2019ai appris \u00e0 ne jamais refuser une opinion \u00e0 mon sujet, \u00e9couter et r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir sur ce que les gens disent<\/strong><\/em>, cela me donne la condition de me voir avec d’autres yeux, de me voir de la fa\u00e7on que je ne me vois pas, et cela m\u2019aide toujours.<\/p>\n

Bien que je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas d’accord, j\u2019ai entendu. M\u00eame si je ne me voyais pas ainsi, j’ai cherch\u00e9 \u00e0 comprendre le raison du \u00ab\u00a0Pourquoi\u00a0\u00bb que cette personne pensait telle chose de moi.<\/p>\n

Encore, sans accepter, lol, je regardais sur internet \u00e0 ce sujet, ses racines, ses changements, je me suis vid\u00e9e de moi-m\u00eame, de mon \u00abopinion\u00bb, et j’ai demand\u00e9 \u00e0 Dieu de me montrer qui j\u2019\u00e9tais v\u00e9ritablement, si on me voyait comme \u00e7a, pour quelle raison je ne me voyais pas? Il y avait quelque chose d’erron\u00e9! ?<\/p>\n

Apr\u00e8s cet acte simple, mais tellement difficile, de me nier \u00e0 moi-m\u00eame, j\u2019ai vu, et chaque fois plus je voyais plus, combien j\u2019\u00e9tais anxieuse!<\/p>\n

L’anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 vous apporte l’agonie, l’affliction, l’impatience, la peur, le manque de tranquillit\u00e9, l’inqui\u00e9tude, le d\u00e9sir intense de faire quelque chose, etc …<\/p>\n

Souvent, nous faisons des erreurs, parce qu\u2019on ne se connait pas, nous pensons que nous ne sommes pas telle chose, mais si nous nous arr\u00eatons, \u00e9coutons et analysons, nous allons nous voir et \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0, nous pouvons changer.<\/p>\n

D\u00e8s ce jour, j’ai vu l\u2019anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 en moi et cela se refl\u00e9t\u00e9 en double sur mon fils, Gabi \u00e9tait ce que je n\u2019aimais pas \u00eatre, et maintenant? Comment r\u00e9soudre ce probl\u00e8me?<\/p>\n

J\u2019ai d\u00fb changer!<\/strong> En me surveillant, j\u2019au d\u00fb me calmer, m\u2019entourer de certitudes, et commencer une nouvelle phase de fa\u00e7onner en lui, ce qui \u00e9tait fa\u00e7onn\u00e9 en moi-m\u00eame.<\/p>\n

J\u2019arrive seulement \u00e0 transmettre quelque chose \u00e0 mon fils, que si cela fait partie de moi.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ch\u00e8re maman<\/strong>, sans m\u00eame r\u00e9aliser, j’avais un probl\u00e8me pendant des ann\u00e9es, et je le passait \u00e0 mon fils. Quelque chose qui \u00e9tait mauvais, que me g\u00eanait, serait aussi pr\u00e9sent dans la vie de mon fils et cela \u00e9tait inacceptable! Comme toute m\u00e8re, je voulais juste apporter de bonnes choses \u00e0 mon fils, alors ne perdez vos chances de devenir meilleure, arr\u00eatez d’\u00eatre difficile, ne pensez pas: \u00ab je suis n\u00e9 comme \u00e7a et je vais mourir comme \u00e7a! \u00bb<\/p>\n

Profitez de vos opportunit\u00e9s et investissez en vous<\/span>, valorisez les bons conseils qui vous feront \u00e9voluer, en plus d’\u00eatre b\u00e9n\u00e9fici\u00e9, vous aiderez votre enfant \u00e0 grandir sans vos erreurs.<\/p>\n

Faites de votre enfant, une meilleure version de vous-m\u00eame!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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