{"id":19632,"date":"2015-05-01T08:00:20","date_gmt":"2015-05-01T08:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/?p=19632"},"modified":"2015-05-20T14:30:09","modified_gmt":"2015-05-20T14:30:09","slug":"peur-ou-crainte-que-doit-avoir-mon-enfant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/2015\/05\/01\/peur-ou-crainte-que-doit-avoir-mon-enfant\/","title":{"rendered":"Peur ou crainte: Que doit avoir mon enfant?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pendant un bon moment, j\u2019ai essay\u00e9 que mon fils m\u2019ob\u00e9isse par peur de la punition; je lui mena\u00e7ait toujours en lui disant: <em>\u00ab Si tu ne m\u2019ob\u00e9is pas, tu resteras sans t\u00e9l\u00e9vision \u00bb ou \u00ab tu es puni parce que tu n\u2019as pas fait ce que je t\u2019ai demand\u00e9 \u00bb<\/em>\u2026 Ceci, bien \u00e9videmment, lui faisait ob\u00e9ir mon ordre rapidement. Je pensais: <em>\u00ab  Il m\u2019ob\u00e9it \u00bb<\/em>. <\/p>\n<p>Cependant, il a grandi et il a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 avoir des nouvelles attitudes, \u00e0 devenir plus ferme. Il est arriv\u00e9 \u00e0 la phase de vouloir \u00ab tout savoir \u00bb et il est arriv\u00e9 \u00e0 me r\u00e9pondre de la m\u00eame mani\u00e8re qui le faisait ses camarades avec leurs parents.<\/p>\n<p>Un certain jour, j\u2019ai vu le d\u00e9sir qu\u2019il avait d\u2019\u00eatre de ma taille et de me dire: <em>\u00ab\u00a0Je n\u2019ai plus peur de toi!\u00a0\u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Alors, Dieu m\u2019a parl\u00e9 tr\u00e8s fort.<\/p>\n<p>Qu\u2019est-ce que j\u2019\u00e9tais en train de faire? Jusqu\u2019\u00e0 quand mon fils serait petit? Jusqu\u2019\u00e0 quand pourrais-je lui faire peur? Pourtant, j\u2019arrivais \u00e0 le contr\u00f4ler parce qu\u2019il avait peur de moi et de mes punitions, mais un jour il serait plus grand que moi et aussi plus fort, et alors, comment ferais-je pour qu\u2019il continue \u00e0 me respecter? <\/p>\n<p>L\u00e0, j\u2019ai vu mon erreur! Et maintenant, je vous le transmets: nous ne pouvons pas penser uniquement au pr\u00e9sent, en se disant: \u00ab  Mon fils m\u2019ob\u00e9it et me respect parce que je suis ferme et dure avec lui\u2026 \u00bb Non! Cette enfant va grandir et arriver \u00e0 un tel point, que vous n\u2019arriverez plus \u00e0 le \u00ab contr\u00f4ler \u00bb mais, la seule mani\u00e8re qu\u2019il vous ob\u00e9isse aujourd\u2019hui et qu\u2019il continue \u00e0 vous respecter toujours, que vous soyez pr\u00e9sente ou pas, c\u2019est par la \u00ab crainte de Dieu \u00bb. Oui, votre enfant doit craindre Dieu et ne pas avoir peur de vous. <\/p>\n<p>Aujourd\u2019hui j\u2019apprends mon fils le commandement de Dieu: <\/p>\n<blockquote>\u00ab\u00a0Honore ton p\u00e8re et ta m\u00e8re, comme l&rsquo;Eternel, ton Dieu, te l&rsquo;a ordonn\u00e9, afin que tes jours se prolongent et que tu sois heureux dans le pays que l&rsquo;Eternel, ton Dieu, te donne. \u00bb Deut\u00e9ronome 5:16<\/blockquote>\n<p>Si nous enfants sont enseign\u00e9s \u00e0 ob\u00e9ir \u00e0 la parole de Dieu e \u00e0 l\u2019aimer de tout coeur, certainement ils nous respecteront et nous honorerons. Ce n\u2019est pas parce que nous m\u00e9ritons, mais par crainte de la parole leur Seigneur, que leur maman leur a enseign\u00e9s \u00e0 craindre et \u00e0 confier. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Si nous enfants sont enseign\u00e9s \u00e0 ob\u00e9ir \u00e0 la parole de Dieu e \u00e0 l\u2019aimer de tout coeur, certainement ils nous respecteront et nous honorerons.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":523,"featured_media":19635,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29,24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19632","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-de-mere-pour-mere-josiane-boccoli-categories","category-famille"],"better_featured_image":{"id":19635,"alt_text":"","caption":"","description":"","media_type":"image","media_details":{"width":1900,"height":748,"file":"2015\/05\/womanandsom.jpg","sizes":{"thumbnail":{"file":"womanandsom-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/05\/womanandsom-150x150.jpg"},"medium":{"file":"womanandsom-300x118.jpg","width":300,"height":118,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/05\/womanandsom-300x118.jpg"},"large":{"file":"womanandsom-1024x403.jpg","width":1024,"height":403,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/05\/womanandsom-1024x403.jpg"},"mini-thumbnail":{"file":"womanandsom-110x110.jpg","width":110,"height":110,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/05\/womanandsom-110x110.jpg"},"big-medium":{"file":"womanandsom-320x220.jpg","width":320,"height":220,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/05\/womanandsom-320x220.jpg"},"post-thumbnail":{"file":"womanandsom-825x325.jpg","width":825,"height":325,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/05\/womanandsom-825x325.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":0,"credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":0,"copyright":"Andres Rodriguez - Fotolia","focal_length":0,"iso":0,"shutter_speed":0,"title":"","orientation":0}},"post":19632,"source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/3\/files\/2015\/05\/womanandsom.jpg"},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Peur ou crainte: Que doit avoir mon enfant? 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