{"id":17705,"date":"2013-09-16T08:34:16","date_gmt":"2013-09-16T08:34:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/?p=17705"},"modified":"2013-09-18T08:42:14","modified_gmt":"2013-09-18T08:42:14","slug":"idee-fixe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/fr\/2013\/09\/16\/idee-fixe\/","title":{"rendered":"Id\u00e9e Fixe"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vous savez, lorsque vous avez cette id\u00e9e dans votre t\u00eate et personne n\u2019arrive \u00e0 la retirer?<\/p>\n

Comment r\u00e9agissez-vous devant une id\u00e9e contraire \u00e0 la v\u00f4tre? Ou quand vous \u00eates confront\u00e9e devant une autre id\u00e9e?
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\nNormalement, vous vous d\u00e9battez en vous-m\u00eame, avec votre id\u00e9e, n’est-ce pas? Lorsque cela arrive, ce qui reste en \u00e9vidence, sont vos raisons. Et face \u00e0 ce bouleversement qui surgit, que dites-vous?<\/p>\n

Votre r\u00e9ponse est presque toujours la m\u00eame:<\/p>\n

– C\u2019est mal.<\/p>\n

– C’est le doute.<\/p>\n

– C\u2019est cela, point final!<\/p>\n

Les pens\u00e9es sournoises arrivent toujours en disant:<\/p>\n

– Je suis ainsi, c\u2019est elle qui ne me comprend pas!<\/p>\n

– Personne ne me comprend!<\/p>\n

– Elle ne sait pas ce qui se passe, en r\u00e9alit\u00e9!<\/p>\n

Cette id\u00e9e \u00abjuste\u00bb vous fait agir de mani\u00e8re isol\u00e9e. Vous n\u2019arrivez pas \u00e0 avancer en tout d\u00e9fi. Vous n\u2019apprenez rien et le pire de tout, c’est que vous \u00eates s\u00fbre d\u2019avoir raison.<\/p>\n

La vie de cette personne est toujours pareille, rien ne change. Il n’y a aucune nouveaut\u00e9 de vie et pour cette raison, elle se cr\u00e9e des aventures d\u00e9sastreuses.<\/p>\n

Elle trouve toujours un moyen de cr\u00e9er des probl\u00e8mes, elle fait une temp\u00eate dans un verre d’eau.<\/p>\n

Il semble que tout le monde lui doit quelque chose. Une consid\u00e9ration, une faveur, une attention, bref peu importe combien vous faites, cela n\u2019est jamais suffisant.<\/p>\n

L\u2019orgueilleux est ainsi. Il agit avec d\u00e9fense et prot\u00e8ge activement ses droits. Toute personne qui n’est pas flexible pour conna\u00eetre ou entendre ce que les autres ont \u00e0 dire, perd, parce qu’elle cesse de voir d’autres angles. Sa vision est bloqu\u00e9e par son ent\u00eatement \u00e0 vouloir maintenir son id\u00e9al de vie.<\/p>\n

Amie lectrice, face \u00e0 ce sc\u00e9nario, je vous demande:<\/p>\n

Voulez-vous continuer \u00e0 nourrir vos id\u00e9es imp\u00e9n\u00e9trables ou vivre en nouveaut\u00e9 de vie?<\/p>\n

Il n\u2019y a qu’une seule voie: Confronter son ego et se pr\u00e9parer pour le v\u00e9ritable duel de titans. L\u00e0 o\u00f9 le vainqueur est le plus fort!<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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