{"id":19060,"date":"2014-09-23T11:38:42","date_gmt":"2014-09-23T10:38:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/?p=19060"},"modified":"2014-09-23T11:38:42","modified_gmt":"2014-09-23T10:38:42","slug":"de-hijos-para-padres-solo-a-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/de-hijos-para-padres-solo-a-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"De Hijos para Padres : \u00ab\u00a1S\u00f3lo a m\u00ed!\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfQui\u00e9n nunca oy\u00f3 esta expresi\u00f3n? O mejor, \u00bfqui\u00e9n nunca la dijo? Qui\u00e9n jam\u00e1s lo hizo, que tire la primera \u00abpiedra\u00bb. <\/p>
\n<\/p>\n

En el momento en que mi estructura familiar cay\u00f3, fue inevitable no pensar: \u00abS\u00f3lo a m\u00ed me pasan estas cosas; todos mis compa\u00f1eros tienen una familia normal, con padre y madre…\u00bb. De entre tantas otras suposiciones, que casi siempre no corresponden a la realidad, pero se basan en lo (in)mediato de los sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Esta predisposici\u00f3n de \u00abv\u00edctima\u00bb nos acompa\u00f1a toda nuestra vida, si no permanecemos atentos. A\u00fan haciendo de Dios nuestro gu\u00eda, aprendiendo y viviendo los beneficios de la fe inteligente, las elecciones son siempre personales, pues el Esp\u00edritu de Dios respeta nuestro libre albedr\u00edo.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed cuando las cosas no salen de acuerdo a lo que pensamos o creemos \u00abmerecer\u00bb; un compa\u00f1ero recibe aquel elogio o el \u00abascenso\u00bb deseado, inmediatamente viene a idea: \u00abYo luch\u00e9 tanto, sacrifiqu\u00e9. S\u00f3lo a m\u00ed… \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 nada sale bien?\u00bb<\/p>\n

Desafortunadamente, nuestra tendencia humana et\u00e1 m\u00e1s inclinada a reaccionar de esta manera. Y no seremos libres, en cuanto no cuidemos, dejando de alimentar lo que contamina nuestra alma.<\/p>\n

Al conversar con una se\u00f1ora, esta semana, me hizo a\u00fan m\u00e1s, analizar este asunto: Alguien, por error, llev\u00f3 algo que le pertenec\u00eda, pero que ser\u00eda perfectamente sustituible. Situaci\u00f3n desagradable, por supuesto, pero provoc\u00f3, al instante lo que hab\u00eda en su interior: \u00abS\u00f3lo conmigo acontecen estas cosas…\u00bb.<\/p>\n

No hay necesidad de explicar lo que sucedi\u00f3 con al menos dos personas antes, pero la mayor preocupaci\u00f3n era ayudarla a darse cuenta de que sus palabras ten\u00edan un significado m\u00e1s profundo, de lo que parec\u00eda. <\/p>\n

Si, inmediatamente, no reflexionamos sobre nuestras reacciones, \u00e9stas se convierten en una especie de \u00abc\u00e1ncer\u00bb en nuestra vida, corroy\u00e9ndonos interiormente. Y, peor a\u00fan, pasan a identificar qui\u00e9n somos. <\/p>\n

Por eso, padres, incluso cuando sus hijos se quejen, diciendo que ning\u00fan padre – o madre – es tan r\u00edgido cuanto usted; que todos los padres les dejan salir a sus hijos por la noche; que todos permiten a sus hijos usar cualquier tipo de ropa,.. \u00a1No se intimide! S\u00f3lo si usted quiere que sus hijos sea igual que la mayor\u00eda.Ya vivimos en un mundo cruel e injusto. Ahora imagine, si la permisividad reinase libre en su interior, en su vida, en su casa y familia…<\/p>\n

El s\u00edndrome de \u00abvictimizaci\u00f3n\u00bb no nos debe \u00abablandar\u00bb as\u00ed como no conmueve el coraz\u00f3n de Dios, precisamente porque no se basa en el justo juicio- la Fe – sino en sentimientos enga\u00f1osos y 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