{"id":18962,"date":"2014-09-02T10:14:31","date_gmt":"2014-09-02T09:14:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/?p=18962"},"modified":"2014-09-17T17:10:33","modified_gmt":"2014-09-17T16:10:33","slug":"con-techo-pero-sin-suelo-parte-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/con-techo-pero-sin-suelo-parte-i\/","title":{"rendered":"De Hijos a Padres: Con techo, pero sin \u201csuelo\u201d… (Parte I)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Si, querida internauta, has le\u00eddo bien: \u201cDe Hijos a Padres\u201d. La querida Viviane Freitas lanz\u00f3 el desaf\u00edo, \u00a1y aqu\u00ed est\u00e1!<\/p>
\n<\/p>\n

Habitualmente los consejos son de los padres a los hijos, pero, como bien sabes, hay actitudes que los padres tienen que marcan, y tambi\u00e9n acompa\u00f1an a sus hijos, contribuyendo para definir sus comportamientos y elecciones, a lo largo de la vida.<\/p>\n

Pero \u00a1c\u00f3mo, en la pr\u00e1ctica?!<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe has dado cuenta que el \u201cmundo se colapsa\u201d incluso bajo tus pies? \u00bfAlguna vez te has decepcionado cuando la persona con la que m\u00e1s contabas \u2013 o peor . que conoc\u00edas desde que naci\u00f3, de un momento a otro, ya no est\u00e1 all\u00ed presente? \u00a1\u00bfY ahora!?<\/p>\n

As\u00ed fue cuando ten\u00eda doce a\u00f1os. No era ni ni\u00f1a, ni adulta, cuando por motivos de una elecci\u00f3n personal, conducida por una doble vida, mi madre decidi\u00f3 abdicar de casa, marido e hijos.<\/p>\n

Lleg\u00f3 el d\u00eda en el que al llegar a casa, con una crema lista y la cocina arreglada, \u00a1ella ya no estaba!<\/p>\n

Con tierna edad, mi vida dio un giro completo, o mejor dicho, dio la vuelta de \u201ccabeza para abajo\u201d, porque lo que ten\u00eda como algo \u201cseguro\u201d hasta entonces, hab\u00eda desaparecido.<\/p>\n

Ahora, con una responsabilidad que no me pertenec\u00eda tuve que ser \u201cama de casa\u201d a jornada completa, \u201cmadre\u201d de un hermano peque\u00f1o y la encargada de su educaci\u00f3n. A\u00fan siendo estudiante, y con los desaf\u00edos que conlleva ser adolescente\u201d, \u00bfc\u00f3mo permitir\u00eda que esto moldease mi futuro?<\/p>\n

La estructura familiar, que supuestamente nos da seguridad, cuando nos sentimos solos, incluso en medio de compa\u00f1eros, amigos, en la escuela o trabajo, ya no hab\u00eda. Qued\u00f3 un vac\u00edo\u2026 que de lo intenso era doloroso constantemente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfSe percibe inmediatamente que reflejo tendr\u00eda mi vida? \u00a1No! Porque en aquel momento de \u201cemergencia\u201d, fue necesarios que alguien tomase las \u201criendas\u201d. Descubr\u00ed de la peor forma que el dolor de la traici\u00f3n era uno de los peores al que el ser humano est\u00e1 sujeto. Infelizmente, pas\u00f3 dentro de mi propia casa: Te quita las fuerzas, destruye, encadena, aniquila las esperanzas de nuevamente volver a ser feliz\u2026 (Este lado de la historia, queda para despu\u00e9s)<\/p>\n

\u00a1\u00bfEra mejor continuar que sufrir silenciosamente, dentro de cuatro paredes, con una familia aparentemente unida?! Claro que no, pero el dolor del \u201cenga\u00f1o\u201d, a veces, duele menos que el dolor del abandono, cuando no vemos otra elecci\u00f3n posible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ahora, la elecci\u00f3n era m\u00eda\u2026 Pero \u00bfbasada en qu\u00e9 modelo, y en qu\u00e9 padrones?<\/p>\n

Simult\u00e1neamente a esta situaci\u00f3n, una t\u00eda \u2013 a quien aprecio mucho, hasta hoy \u2013 me present\u00f3 la Iglesia Universal. \u00bfQu\u00e9 influencia tuvo esta invitaci\u00f3n?<\/p>\n

Lo sabr\u00e1s, en el pr\u00f3ximo art\u00edculo\u2026<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":18963,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[249],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18962","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-familia"],"better_featured_image":{"id":18963,"alt_text":"","caption":"","description":"","media_type":"image","media_details":{"width":660,"height":260,"file":"2014\/09\/familia.jpg","sizes":{"thumbnail":{"file":"familia-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-150x150.jpg"},"medium":{"file":"familia-300x118.jpg","width":300,"height":118,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-300x118.jpg"},"blogintro":{"file":"familia-144x100.jpg","width":144,"height":100,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-144x100.jpg"},"onethirdsquare":{"file":"familia-300x260.jpg","width":300,"height":260,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-300x260.jpg"},"oneforthsquare":{"file":"familia-219x219.jpg","width":219,"height":219,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-219x219.jpg"},"onefifthsquare":{"file":"familia-168x168.jpg","width":168,"height":168,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-168x168.jpg"},"onesixthsquare":{"file":"familia-135x135.jpg","width":135,"height":135,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-135x135.jpg"},"onethirdlandscape":{"file":"familia-300x200.jpg","width":300,"height":200,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-300x200.jpg"},"oneforthlandscape":{"file":"familia-219x146.jpg","width":219,"height":146,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-219x146.jpg"},"onefifthlandscape":{"file":"familia-168x112.jpg","width":168,"height":112,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-168x112.jpg"},"onesixthlandscape":{"file":"familia-135x90.jpg","width":135,"height":90,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-135x90.jpg"},"onethirdportrait":{"file":"familia-300x260.jpg","width":300,"height":260,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-300x260.jpg"},"oneforthportrait":{"file":"familia-219x260.jpg","width":219,"height":260,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-219x260.jpg"},"onehalfsquare-inpost":{"file":"familia-305x260.jpg","width":305,"height":260,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-305x260.jpg"},"onethirdsquare-inpost":{"file":"familia-200x200.jpg","width":200,"height":200,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-200x200.jpg"},"oneforthsquare-inpost":{"file":"familia-145x145.jpg","width":145,"height":145,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-145x145.jpg"},"onehalflandscape-inpost":{"file":"familia-305x205.jpg","width":305,"height":205,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-305x205.jpg"},"onethirdlandscape-inpost":{"file":"familia-200x132.jpg","width":200,"height":132,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-200x132.jpg"},"oneforthlandscape-inpost":{"file":"familia-145x96.jpg","width":145,"height":96,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/2\/files\/2014\/09\/familia-145x96.jpg"},"onehalfportrait-inpost":{"file":"familia-305x260.jpg","width":305,"height":260,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/w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