{"id":18250,"date":"2014-01-25T16:38:45","date_gmt":"2014-01-25T16:38:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/?p=18250"},"modified":"2014-02-05T16:41:45","modified_gmt":"2014-02-05T16:41:45","slug":"deseo-de-huir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/deseo-de-huir\/","title":{"rendered":"Deseo de Huir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Esto ocurre con todo ser humano: por m\u00e1s capaz, preparado o valiente que sea, en alg\u00fan momento de nuestra vida, nos deparamos con situaciones en las que no podemos volver atr\u00e1s o no podemos \u201chacer las cosas a nuestra manera\u201d.<\/p>
\n\u00a1O te enfrentas o huyes!
\n
\nLo interesante es que ya existe dentro de nosotros este instinto: desde ni\u00f1os no queremos enfrentar el problema como realmente es.<\/p>\n

Cuando somos peque\u00f1os, si romp\u00edamos algo, o si hac\u00edamos cualquier travesura, \u00bfcu\u00e1l era nuestra reacci\u00f3n instant\u00e1nea? \u00a1Escondernos! Porque no quer\u00edamos enfrentar la rega\u00f1ina que vendr\u00eda despu\u00e9s de descubrir \u201cla obra de arte\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSabes lo que hice? Un d\u00eda, despu\u00e9s de una pelea con mis hermanos, prepar\u00e9 en una bolsa algunas prendas de ropa, \u00a1me fui de casa! Ten\u00eda apenas 8 a\u00f1os, yo encaraba esa situaci\u00f3n de separaci\u00f3n y peleas dentro de casa como una dificultad insuperable.<\/p>\n

Los a\u00f1os pasan, crecemos, \u00bfy qu\u00e9 seguimos haciendo? \u201cHuir de casa\u201d. Ahora ya no te escondes debajo de la cama, o preparas tu bolsa y huyes a la calle, sin embargo finges que el problema no existe.<\/p>\n

Primero ignoras la gravedad de la situaci\u00f3n y llegas al c\u00famulo de convivir con \u00e9l debajo del mismo techo, como si en alg\u00fan momento de la vida \u00e9l fuese a desaparecer, por arte de magia. \u00bfNo es tambi\u00e9n esto un tipo de huida?<\/p>\n

Algunos sedan sus mentes, otros crean un mundo de fantas\u00edas (\u00bfya has o\u00eddo hablar del Escapismo?) acaban matando todos sus objetivos, y deciden dar fin a su propia vida.<\/p>\n

Como profunda conocedora de t\u00e9cnicas de fuga, te puedo decir: \u00a1Nada de eso soluciona el problema! Puedes cambiar de pa\u00eds, de continente, de sexo, puedes incluso cambiar de identidad \u2013 esto dar\u00e1 un alivio \u2013 s\u00ed, podr\u00e1s respirar aliviada… \u00a1por algunos instantes! Sinceramente, el problema volver\u00e1. Y cada vez parecer\u00e1 m\u00e1s fuerte, m\u00e1s imposible, hasta que dominar\u00e1 por completo tu vida.<\/p>\n

Cada vez que huyes, \u00e9l va tambi\u00e9n, porque fue \u00e9l que acab\u00f3 escondi\u00e9ndose dentro de ti.<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo superarlo? Ya fui derrotada muchas veces, yo misma me titulaba \u201cLa Fracasada\u201d, al punto de no soportar mirarme al espejo. Cuando dej\u00e9 de huir y decid\u00ed encarar qui\u00e9n realmente era \u2013 encar\u00e9 de frente mi mayor enemigo \u2013 pude encontrar la persona que Dios quiere que yo sea.<\/p>\n

Sigo \u201cen construcci\u00f3n\u201d pero la principal conquista es la certeza de que un d\u00eda Le conocer\u00e9 como soy conocida. <\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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