{"id":18054,"date":"2013-11-30T17:10:25","date_gmt":"2013-11-30T17:10:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/?p=18054"},"modified":"2013-12-03T17:13:23","modified_gmt":"2013-12-03T17:13:23","slug":"llena-de-bla-bla-bla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/llena-de-bla-bla-bla\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00a1Llena de bla, bla, bla!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yo siempre ayudaba a mi esposo en la Iglesia, haciendo lo que una esposa de pastor acostumbra a hacer.<\/p>
\nPero, en realidad, no estaba siendo una buena compa\u00f1\u00eda, porque comenc\u00e9 a hablar sin pensar todo lo que me pasaba, fuese bueno o malo. Si estaba enfadada por algo, lo dec\u00eda, soltaba un cami\u00f3n de palabras y as\u00ed lo que era realmente importante para hablar, dejaba de serlo, era mucho bla, bla, bla\u2026
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Ya no estaba \u201csumando\u201d con \u00e9l como deber\u00eda. \u00c9l ya no quer\u00eda o\u00edr nada, era como si yo tirase toda la carga encima de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Esto le irritaba, \u00e9l me dec\u00eda: \u201cDeja de traer problemas sin ayudarme a encontrar la soluci\u00f3n.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00c9l ya ten\u00eda tantas cosas para resolver. Incluso me dijo que no sab\u00eda qu\u00e9 estaba pasando conmigo.<\/p>\n

Yo sab\u00eda que estaba siendo molesta con \u00e9l, que no estaba a\u00f1adiendo, y detestaba eso en mi.<\/p>\n

Mi argumento con \u00e9l era: \u201cLa mujer es as\u00ed, no somos igual que los hombres que no necesitan desahogarse con alguien\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

Asistiendo a las reuniones con las esposas empec\u00e9 a poner en pr\u00e1ctica lo que o\u00eda sobre el sentimiento; empec\u00e9 a ser m\u00e1s racional.<\/p>\n

Ya no llevaba los problemas a mi esposo, sino que consegu\u00eda llevar hasta \u00e9l c\u00f3mo pod\u00edamos solucionarlos.<\/p>\n

\u00c9l dijo que yo empec\u00e9 a razonar como \u00e9l J.<\/p>\n

No es que yo me cerrase con \u00e9l, por lo contrario, estamos m\u00e1s unidos, porque yo estoy aprendiendo a usar m\u00e1s la raz\u00f3n, y fue m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil entenderlo.<\/p>\n

Hoy no necesito llevar todo lo que es problemita a mi esposo, incomodando e incluso molest\u00e1ndole.<\/p>\n

Yo misma resuelvo las cosas en casa y en la IURD sola, como una auxiliadora tiene que actuar, y es el Esp\u00edritu Santo quien me da direcci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Este fue el cambio que mi esposo vio en mi, aprend\u00ed a ser una mujer m\u00e1s racional y pr\u00e1ctica.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pero, en realidad, no estaba siendo una buena compa\u00f1\u00eda, porque comenc\u00e9 a hablar sin pensar todo lo que me pasaba, fuese bueno o malo. 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