{"id":16241,"date":"2012-06-06T09:46:35","date_gmt":"2012-06-06T09:46:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/?p=16241"},"modified":"2012-06-08T09:47:56","modified_gmt":"2012-06-08T09:47:56","slug":"cerrar-la-puerta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/cerrar-la-puerta\/","title":{"rendered":"Cerrar la \u201cpuerta\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"intro\">El miedo forma parte de los sentimientos de cualquier ser humano.<\/p>\n<p>Pero solo lo sentimos cuando permitimos que determinadas experiencias se transformen en traumas.<br \/>\n<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Situaciones que para otros, son consideradas \u201cnormales\u201d , nos hacen \u201ctemblar\u201d de miedo.<br \/>\nMientras que en el interior aceptemos esta condici\u00f3n, aquello que result\u00f3 ser una debilidad, empieza a ser la ra\u00edz de nuestros miedos y recelos m\u00e1s profundos. Por eso cuesta tanto hacer frente a situaciones en las cuales ya tuvimos malas experiencias anteriormente.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u00bfCu\u00e1ndo va a terminar?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a1Cu\u00e1ndo practicamos la fe inteligente!<\/p>\n<p>Cuando tenemos miedo, la tendencia es \u201ccerrar la puerta\u201d; ni siquiera intentamos superarlo, sino que necesitamos que este prevalezca y se desenvuelva en nuestro interior. Una vez que dejamos albergar el miedo, este se convierte en parte de nuestra vida y empieza a guiar nuestros pensamientos y acciones.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por ejemplo<\/strong>: Cuando en alg\u00fan momento recibimos \u201cno\u201d a alguna aspiraci\u00f3n o deseo, eso afecta directamente a nuestro orgullo, porque en ese momento depositamos en \u00e9l nuestras expectativas. Para que esto no vuelva a suceder una y otra vez; y no seamos nuevamente \u201cdecepcionadas\u201d, todo lo que tiene que ver con esta situaci\u00f3n, se evita en el futuro. La puerta se \u201c<strong>cierra<\/strong>\u201d, sin posibilidad de una nueva oportunidad, ya que la propia persona no lo permite. Y nadie, absolutamente nadie, tiene condiciones de ayudarla, en esta condici\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lo mismo ocurre con las amistades. Es muy frecuente:<\/strong><br \/>\nUna supuesta amiga te decepciona y, ahora, nadie tiene espacio para nuevamente conquistar tu confianza o amistad. Cierras la \u201cpuerta\u201d de tu \u201ccasa\u201d , no permites que nadie m\u00e1s entre, \u00a1por que corres el riesgo de volver a ser herida!<\/p>\n<p>Entonces, todo lo que nos causa miedo, pavor o verg\u00fcenza, nos hace \u201ccerrarnos\u201d interiormente, llen\u00e1ndonos de sentimientos nocivos a la estabilidad interior, como la tristeza, angustia, p\u00e1nico, etc. Emociones que alteran y transforman negativamente nuestra personalidad. Mientras que esto hace parte de nosotros, nuestra boca ni se atreve a pronunciar nuestros defectos, porque en el fondo, el sentimiento de culpa tambi\u00e9n nos domina.<\/p>\n<p>Un ejemplo t\u00edpico son aquellas que son v\u00edctimas de alg\u00fan tipo de violencia: Despu\u00e9s de la traum\u00e1tica experiencia \u201ccierran\u201d la puerta, sufriendo un trastorno de personalidad, fruto de esa situaci\u00f3n . 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