{"id":15995,"date":"2012-03-14T12:25:02","date_gmt":"2012-03-14T12:25:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/?p=15995"},"modified":"2012-03-14T12:25:33","modified_gmt":"2012-03-14T12:25:33","slug":"trauma-insistente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/es\/trauma-insistente\/","title":{"rendered":"Trauma Insistente"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfC\u00f3mo quitar algo que te caus\u00f3 tantas marcas y dolor?<\/p>
\n\u00bfC\u00f3mo puede salir algo que sientes, si quieres y tienes \u201crazones\u201d para estar de esta forma?
\n<\/p>\n

Queridas y amadas lectoras. Yo no pensaba que ten\u00eda un trauma, pues durante toda mi vida siempre hubo alguien en quien me refugi\u00e9 para olvidar. La familia tuvo un papel fundamental para m\u00ed. Ella me daba todo lo que necesitaba. Cari\u00f1o, atenci\u00f3n, etc\u2026 siempre apreci\u00e9 esto en ellos.<\/p>\n

Pero el tiempo fue pasando y fui creciendo. El trauma estaba all\u00ed, junto a m\u00ed, pero que estaba escondido. Todas las veces que me encontraba en nuevos desaf\u00edos, en nuevas relaciones o cuando reve\u00eda personas que ya conoc\u00eda\u2026 pero que no me recib\u00edan de la forma que yo esperaba, \u00e9l surg\u00eda sin esperar.<\/p>\n

Intentaba y me esforzaba para encajarme. Pero por dentro nada\u2026 encajaba con los asuntos, los juegos e incluso la forma de ser de aquellas personas.<\/p>\n

Pero lo que no entend\u00eda, era el hecho de ser \u201cpr\u00f3jimos\u201d. Pero \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 ten\u00eda dificultad en relacionarme? \u00bfCu\u00e1l era el motivo?<\/p>\n

Yo lo intentaba, pero mi asunto no encajaba. Y con eso\u2026iba generando aquella sensaci\u00f3n escondida, que yo no sab\u00eda que a\u00fan exist\u00eda. La inseguridad. No soy quien soy con ellas. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me retraigo?<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de salir de aquel grupo\u2026all\u00ed estaba yo, llorando.<\/p>\n

\u00a1Qu\u00e9 es eso! \u00bfTe sent\u00edas as\u00ed?<\/p>\n

Si. Infelizmente no s\u00f3lo me sent\u00eda, como tambi\u00e9n gem\u00eda y me angustiaba.<\/p>\n

Siempre que estaba en grupos, si no encajase, en seguida volv\u00eda todo aquello de nuevo.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente pasaron a\u00f1os para que eso se fuese desvendando. Nunca imaginaria que un problema externo tuviese que ver con mis ojos y con mi interior.<\/p>\n

Yo viv\u00ed situaciones que muchos no estaban viviendo y que ni imaginaban que yo estaba pasando. Estaban a mi lado\u2026 sin embargo, parec\u00eda que hac\u00edan \u201cla vista gorda\u201d a mi estado.<\/p>\n

Pero\u2026 \u00a1No era la vista gorda! Ellos no ten\u00edan la capacidad de entender, porque no lo pasaron.<\/p>\n

Las consecuencias son dr\u00e1sticas cuando guardas un trauma \u2013 que viene de los sentimientos.
\nEra el trauma.<\/p>\n

Dios me revel\u00f3 todo delante de m\u00ed, como si fuese una pel\u00edcula en directo. Pude entender desde el d\u00eda que nac\u00ed, quien era, e incluso porque ten\u00eda aquellas reacciones que no hac\u00edan parte de lo que quer\u00eda para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Espera el pr\u00f3ximo post.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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