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Today, I\u2019m going to talk about something that some assistants have forgotten when they deal with people in the church. <\/p>\n

What are you talking about?
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\nThere are some assistants who want people to go and talk with them instead of taking the initiative to talk with the person and start a conversation.<\/p>\n

Some days ago, an assistant, came to talk with me in a chat and told me that she didn\u2019t go to talk with people because she didn\u2019t want to be inconvenient and it wasn\u2019t also her problem. Then, I made her see that she couldn\u2019t think in that way because it wasn\u2019t what God had expected from us.
\nOn the contrary, God wants to see in us another attitude and boldness to use our faith with energy and indignation to save the souls who are in the devil\u2019s hands. Is that what we\u2019re doing? <\/p>\n

To be honest, a pastor can\u2019t talk with everybody individually and take care of themselves all the time. That\u2019s the reason why the work that the assistants do is too important. They\u2019re the helpers of the pastors. So, you have to do it with responsability and commitment. <\/p>\n

You should remember that you have a call and that call isn\u2019t only for you to be beautiful in the meetings and show your uniform to everybody. No!! God have called you to help those whose soul is sad.<\/p>\n

But, you have to leave your comfort zone and be against the tendency of doing what everybody does and go to the war.<\/p>\n

Another important issue, is the way you receive people when they arrive at church. It doesn\u2019t matter if they are members or people who go for the first time. You may be well-dressed, with a happy face and trying to be nice. We\u2019ve seen that a lot of assistants seems to be angry and that\u2019s not a benefit. It makes people be far from them. If this is your case, you should work in this aspect and change your behaviour.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s more, it\u2019s important to make you remember that the conversation you have with people have to be with determination and God\u2019s direction. In case you don\u2019know the right answer to the person in that moment ,you don\u2019t have to feel bad or with shame. You have to be humble and tell the person you\u2019ll talk with the pastor and ask for his opinion. You should never advise people in a hasty or childhood way. <\/p>\n

Could you see yourself in this post? What has called your attention? <\/p>\n

Leave your comment here. I\u2019ll read them. <\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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