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I\u2019ve always helped my husband in church just as a pastor’s wife does.<\/p>
\nBut actually, I was not being of good company to him because I began to say things without thinking.
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\nI would tell him everything that happened to me whether it was good or bad. If I was upset about something, I told him, I would pour a truckload of words onto him and because of that whatever was important was seen as if it was not. My words were full of blah, blah, blah.<\/p>\n

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\nI was no longer “adding ” on to his life, as I should be. He didn\u2019t even want to hear anything I had to say anymore because it was like I would put the load on him.<\/p>\n

It made him angry, he told me,” Stop bringing problems to me without helping me find the solution.”<\/p>\n

He had so many things to resolve already. He even asked me what was happening to me.<\/p>\n

I knew I was being annoying and wasn\u2019t adding up to his life and I hated it.<\/p>\n

My excuse was that women are like that; unlike men we need to express ourselves to someone.”<\/p>\n

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\nWhile attending the pastor\u2019s wives meetings I started putting into practice what I heard about our feelings. Then I started to act more rational. I stopped bringing problems to my husband, but rather I would find a solution for it and tell him about it.<\/p>\n

He said that I started to think like him.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that I shut him out, on the contrary, now we are even closer because I ‘m learning to use my reason more. Now it\u2019s easier for me to understand him.<\/p>\n

I no longer bother him with small things that just disturb him.<\/p>\n

I, myself, solve the things at home and in the UCKG, just as an auxiliary should and the Holy Spirit is the one who gives me direction.<\/p>\n

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\nThis was the change that my husband saw in me. I’ve learned to be a more rational and practical woman.<\/p>\n\n

\"\"<\/strong><\/p>\n

Collaborated:<\/p>\n

Michele Melo Flor\u00eancio, Balzar, Ecuador<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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