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I spend my time looking for someone to look at me, say something, give me a smile, etc.<\/p>\n

When that doesn\u2019t happen I feel upset, down, discouraged, and my day is over.
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\nI feel like nobody loves me, I have no friends, it seems as though I don\u2019t even exist.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re feeling this way, you need to wake up and put into practice what I\u2019m going to write. You need to meditate on it in order to realize how much you\u2019re worth.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that others don\u2019t pay attention to you, it\u2019s that you don\u2019t value yourself!<\/p>\n

You never fix yourself for you to feel good, but you do it for others.<\/p>\n

If you do something different it\u2019s never for yourself, but you do it to draw attention from others.<\/p>\n

And when that doesn\u2019t happen, when no one praises or looks at you, you get frustrated.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s not that no one is looking, it\u2019s that you ‘re so blinded by your feelings that you aren\u2019t able to see it!<\/p>\n

Stop thinking this way, take a radical action, fight against those feelings and start investing in yourself.<\/p>\n

Start getting dress up for you to feel good and if you don\u2019t know how ask for help. Seek in whom can help, ask God for help!<\/p>\n

But you have to trust, believe, and persevere each day. Give God and yourself a chance.<\/p>\n

Yes, you must give yourself a chance, because what good is it to believe in God and not believe in yourself.<\/p>\n

Have you been to a doctor this year for a check -up? Have you visited a gynecologist? Or a have you seen a nutritionist to find out if your eating correctly, etc.?<\/p>\n

Who knows if you’re so concerned about others that you forgot about yourself? Maybe you\u2019re sick and don\u2019t even know it!<\/p>\n

Friend, wake up! You\u2019re still young, put an end to this situation, you have your whole life ahead of you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not worth living by only depending on what others give you. It’s time to live your own life and not wait around for others to live it for you.<\/p>\n

Stop acting like a beggar.<\/p>\n

Value yourself. The day you value yourself is the day you will realize your worth before God.<\/p>\n

A hug!<\/p>\n<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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