{"id":587,"date":"2013-09-02T14:04:13","date_gmt":"2013-09-02T14:04:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/?p=587"},"modified":"2013-09-03T14:09:10","modified_gmt":"2013-09-03T14:09:10","slug":"why-havent-i-changed-yet-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/why-havent-i-changed-yet-i\/","title":{"rendered":"Why haven\u2019t I changed yet? I"},"content":{"rendered":"

I am already aware of my mistake, so why haven\u2019t I changed yet? I’m getting frustrated and don\u2019t know what else to do.<\/p>\n

You haven\u2019t changed yet because when you’re in a cozy place you forget about the seriousness of the situation.
\n<\/p>\n

But why does the person forget so easily?<\/p>\n

The problem is that she is being driven by the circumstances rather than evaluating things with her intellect, because if she did then she wouldn\u2019t forget.<\/p>\n

Because she didn\u2019t use her head, but rather used her feelings she soon forgets. That\u2019s why she doesn\u2019t go forward and continues to defeat her problem.<\/p>\n

Note that those who don\u2019t reason can\u2019t be defined and much less resolve anything! In other words, those who live by feelings live undefined and therefore postpone their happiness until…. they can\u2019t take it any longer and reaches the conclusion that they have to act with intelligence.<\/p>\n

Friend, evaluate your situation and don\u2019t let yourself be lead by your feeling. If you let your emotions control you, your mind won\u2019t use reason, since emotions obstruct your understanding.<\/p>\n

You have to learn to think and be willing to find the truth.<\/p>\n

There are many people that have been in the church for many years and are discouraged, they\u2019ve surrendered to the easy things in life all because they simply don\u2019t want to take the trouble to think.<\/p>\n

Do you know why?<\/p>\n

Because they don\u2019t want to recognize their errors and start all over again, but they give themselves the “luxury” of wanting to overcome without any effort.
\nIt\u2019s important to be clear that for change to happen you can\u2019t depend on anyone else. The only one that can change is you.<\/p>\n

After all who needs it?<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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