{"id":550,"date":"2013-08-12T10:41:53","date_gmt":"2013-08-12T10:41:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/?p=550"},"modified":"2013-08-22T11:01:18","modified_gmt":"2013-08-22T11:01:18","slug":"hes-not-the-helper","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/hes-not-the-helper\/","title":{"rendered":"He\u2019s not the helper"},"content":{"rendered":"

The man wasn\u2019t made \u200b\u200bfrom the woman, but by the hands of God.<\/p>
\nHe was made to be the head and not the body.<\/p>\n

This sounds simple, but it\u2019s not when put into practice. In most cases, women want their husbands to be understanding and expect them to help in their numerous tasks but when they don\u2019t they see them as being selfish.<\/p>\n

He wasn\u2019t made to be a helper.<\/p>\n

Even if he tries his best he\u2019s not able to help his wife spiritually because he\u2019s not able to understand the reason or the origin of the problem within her. For example, when your body has a problem you can\u2019t tell or understand the reason of that problem.<\/p>\n

Suppose you feel pain in your knee, does your head know and understand the reason for this pain?<\/p>\n

It is the same way for a man, who is the head, to help his wife, who is the body … It\u2019s very tricky! It\u2019s very rare for a man to influence his wife. On the other hand, he can easily be influenced and deceived because he doesn\u2019t know how to deal with her sentimental problem. She eludes him with her words.<\/p>\n

Now you can see and understand the importance of being a wise woman to build your home. The Bible says that wise is he who puts God’s Word into practice. But how can you put it into practice?
\nIn order to put something into practice I need to acknowledge that I\u2019m in need and also be alert, so that I can be careful to put it into practice.<\/p>\n

Dear reader, you have no idea how much you need to be a wise woman, because if you knew how important it is you would appreciate the Word of God much more and fear it with all caution.<\/p>\n

Do you want something eternal? Then build it!<\/p>\n

How?<\/p>\n

By being the first to be the very Word of God in your life!<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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