{"id":503,"date":"2013-07-26T10:33:32","date_gmt":"2013-07-26T10:33:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/?p=503"},"modified":"2013-08-01T10:36:26","modified_gmt":"2013-08-01T10:36:26","slug":"the-pastors-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/the-pastors-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"The pastor&#8217;s wife  \u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today I would like to address myself to all the women who deal with people in the Church.[<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nMany women come to us with a very difficult past, especially in their family where they grew up.<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nThey have all sorts of problems due to the upbringing they\u2019ve had. Therefore they have difficulty showing affection to their family, which affect their life at home.<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nThey come to us with many type of problems.<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nThese women are in your Church. Most of them are right there before you and maybe they never seek you for help. Why?<br \/>\nIt\u2019s because they haven\u2019t found anyone to accompany them in their Spiritual journey and give their life for them.<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nStep out of your comfort zone, get up and go to them because these women need your help. Most of the time the Pastor even addresses the problem they are facing, but it\u2019s not directly to them It\u2019s to the whole congregation and therefore they aren\u2019t able to take full advantage of the solution.<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nIt\u2019s so important that you help these women. If it weren\u2019t so then God wouldn\u2019t have instituted the Church.<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nYou are so important that God not only gave us His Word, but above all, His presence.<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nIf you as a wife don\u2019t play the mother role in your Church, then those women will be orphans. 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