{"id":3685,"date":"2015-12-14T09:00:59","date_gmt":"2015-12-14T09:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/?p=3685"},"modified":"2015-12-14T11:13:20","modified_gmt":"2015-12-14T11:13:20","slug":"head-on-the-clouds","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/head-on-the-clouds\/","title":{"rendered":"Head on the Clouds"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u201cYou&#8217;re always distracted, you lose everything, you don\u2019t lose your head just because its attached to your body; Irresponsible, you don\u2019t do anything right\u2026\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Do you recognize these words? Normally these are directed to the youths that are so called \u201cHead on the Clouds\u201d, irresponsibles. <\/p>\n<p><strong>When we hear the words, many thoughts come to our head\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-Self-pity: \u201cFor reals, I am irresponsible, I dont do anything right, Im useless\u2026\u201d<br \/>\n-Injustice: \u201cBut I tried my best, its not that bad, what a lack of patience!\u2026\u201d<br \/>\n-Indifference: \u201cYeah, this is just me, if they don\u2019t want to, they don\u2019t have to ask me anything\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>All thoughts lead us to act or think a certain way.<\/p>\n<p>And when we have those thoughts, we are led to take one single action: We won\u2019t change who we are! Stagnate! After all, we are either too bad to change, or they\u2019re being unfair with us, or we don\u2019t think that changing is worth it. These thoughts are useless for our development. They don\u2019t help at all in out growth, they actually in our way.<\/p>\n<p>So what do we do now?<br \/>\nTheres 2 things we need to have in mind to be different:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1-Know what you don\u2019t want to be<\/strong><br \/>\nOddly enough, this is the hardest part. We need humbleness to realized that we are wrong, we are gonna need to want to know what we did wrong, and thats when critics fall perfect into place for us, because they help us in this realization process. We need to know what to do.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2-Know what you\u2019re gonna do different<\/strong><br \/>\nThe imperfection is so attached to us, in other words, its so natural to do or not a certain thing that way, that we don\u2019t even realize we made a mistake again. Then we must know!<br \/>\nIf the way i clean my room is not the best, then what is the best way? Where should i start? How should I do this?<br \/>\nTake notes of how it went, take before and after pictures, put sticky note everywhere so you won\u2019t forget, they really help with this.<\/p>\n<p>Theres a rule that i have and it helps me a lot:<br \/>\nNever trust my memory!<\/p>\n<p>Nobody likes to forget, and forgetting is not something that we can control. Whomever forgets, forgets! Its not on purpose, but we can prevent it; theres a way to \u201cswerve\u201d our limitations, figure out a way to get our head the way it always has to be: Clean to absorb what God has to teach us!<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cFinally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Those things which ye have both learned and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you.\u201d Philippians 4:8,9(KJV) <\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cYou\u2019re always distracted, you lose everything, you don\u2019t lose your head just because its attached to your body; Irresponsible, you don\u2019t do anything right\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3686,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[131],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3685","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-youth"],"better_featured_image":{"id":3686,"alt_text":"","caption":"","description":"","media_type":"image","media_details":{"width":1900,"height":785,"file":"2015\/12\/cabeca_ar.jpg","sizes":{"thumbnail":{"file":"cabeca_ar-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/12\/cabeca_ar-150x150.jpg"},"medium":{"file":"cabeca_ar-300x124.jpg","width":300,"height":124,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/12\/cabeca_ar-300x124.jpg"},"large":{"file":"cabeca_ar-1024x423.jpg","width":1024,"height":423,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/12\/cabeca_ar-1024x423.jpg"},"mini-thumbnail":{"file":"cabeca_ar-110x110.jpg","width":110,"height":110,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/12\/cabeca_ar-110x110.jpg"},"big-medium":{"file":"cabeca_ar-320x220.jpg","width":320,"height":220,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/12\/cabeca_ar-320x220.jpg"},"full-post-thumbnail":{"file":"cabeca_ar-1900x748.jpg","width":1900,"height":748,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/12\/cabeca_ar-1900x748.jpg"},"post-thumbnail":{"file":"cabeca_ar-825x325.jpg","width":825,"height":325,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/12\/cabeca_ar-825x325.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":0,"credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":0,"copyright":"pathdoc - Fotolia","focal_length":0,"iso":0,"shutter_speed":0,"title":"","orientation":0}},"post":3685,"source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/12\/cabeca_ar.jpg"},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Head on the Clouds - Viviane Freitas<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/head-on-the-clouds\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Head on the Clouds - Viviane Freitas\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"\u201cYou\u2019re always distracted, you lose everything, you don\u2019t lose your head just because its attached to your body; 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