{"id":3209,"date":"2015-09-11T15:49:05","date_gmt":"2015-09-11T15:49:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/?p=3209"},"modified":"2015-09-11T15:49:05","modified_gmt":"2015-09-11T15:49:05","slug":"grudge-grudge-what-do-i-want-you-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/grudge-grudge-what-do-i-want-you-for\/","title":{"rendered":"Grudge, grudge what do I want you for?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>A grudge is so evil that it can pass from a mother to a child, without her not even noticing it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I always compare a grudge to cancer, which keeps on sprawling and destroying people.  It\u2019s a feeling that only hurts those who feel and keep it, capable of ruining a future, preventing from reaching dreams, frustrating objectives and most importantly, it can lead to the loss of salvation.<\/p>\n<p>Dear Mom, whatever the situation may have been, it\u2019ll never be worth keeping this feeling, as a form of revenge. Understand once and for all, that who loses is only you. And as if that weren\u2019t enough, you even convey all this dirtiness to your child that could and certainly deserves a healthy spiritually life, free of all this evil.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Forgiveness brings freedom!<\/strong> Thus, free yourself and your child, take action and sacrifice this feeling, because this sacrifice is what will ensure your faith.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Take action and sacrifice this feeling<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":451,"featured_media":3210,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[146],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3209","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-from-mother-to-mother"],"better_featured_image":{"id":3210,"alt_text":"","caption":"","description":"","media_type":"image","media_details":{"width":1900,"height":748,"file":"2015\/09\/mother.jpg","sizes":{"thumbnail":{"file":"mother-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/09\/mother-150x150.jpg"},"medium":{"file":"mother-300x118.jpg","width":300,"height":118,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/09\/mother-300x118.jpg"},"large":{"file":"mother-1024x403.jpg","width":1024,"height":403,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/09\/mother-1024x403.jpg"},"mini-thumbnail":{"file":"mother-110x110.jpg","width":110,"height":110,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/09\/mother-110x110.jpg"},"big-medium":{"file":"mother-320x220.jpg","width":320,"height":220,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/09\/mother-320x220.jpg"},"post-thumbnail":{"file":"mother-825x325.jpg","width":825,"height":325,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/09\/mother-825x325.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":0,"credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":0,"copyright":"brainsil - Fotolia","focal_length":0,"iso":0,"shutter_speed":0,"title":"","orientation":0}},"post":3209,"source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/09\/mother.jpg"},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.0 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Grudge, grudge what do I want you for? 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