{"id":3164,"date":"2015-08-25T13:19:43","date_gmt":"2015-08-25T13:19:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/?p=3164"},"modified":"2015-08-25T13:19:43","modified_gmt":"2015-08-25T13:19:43","slug":"self-esteem-and-love-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/self-esteem-and-love-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Self-esteem and love life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, we talked about self-esteem and today we will continue with the same theme, but will include love life. <em><strong>Why?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>Because if you aren\u2019t able to love yourself,<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"> to value yourself<\/span>, if you don\u2019t know yourself, how will you know what\u2019s best for you? And what will the outcome be?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">The wrong choice<\/span>! That&#8217;s it! Often for not appreciating yourself, you don\u2019t make the right choices: It\u2019s very easy to please you with the minimum, you don\u2019t impose limits, your partner does what he wants to, he doesn\u2019t value you, and in some cases there are betrayals &#8230; and you still don\u2019t do anything about it!<\/p>\n<p>Do you want to have a future different from what I described above?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Marry God!<\/strong> Your marriage with God makes you start to value yourself, to have standards that are not imposed by today&#8217;s society, where there is no discipline and decency&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t accept to marry someone who didn\u2019t believe in what I believe, who didn\u2019t have the same faith, who didn\u2019t fear God! I was sure that God had prepared the best for me, even if I didn\u2019t know when and how it would happen&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Because before wanting to marry a person\u2014I married God! And He confirmed it, He gave me the absolute certainty that he was the right person, and the feelings didn\u2019t control me &#8230; When God gives you something\u2014there is no doubt!<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Marry God, and only then you will make the right choice in your love life!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When God gives you something\u2014there is no doubt!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":450,"featured_media":3165,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[131],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3164","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-youth"],"better_featured_image":{"id":3165,"alt_text":"","caption":"","description":"","media_type":"image","media_details":{"width":1900,"height":765,"file":"2015\/08\/vida_senti.jpg","sizes":{"thumbnail":{"file":"vida_senti-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/08\/vida_senti-150x150.jpg"},"medium":{"file":"vida_senti-300x121.jpg","width":300,"height":121,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/08\/vida_senti-300x121.jpg"},"large":{"file":"vida_senti-1024x412.jpg","width":1024,"height":412,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/08\/vida_senti-1024x412.jpg"},"mini-thumbnail":{"file":"vida_senti-110x110.jpg","width":110,"height":110,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/08\/vida_senti-110x110.jpg"},"big-medium":{"file":"vida_senti-320x220.jpg","width":320,"height":220,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/08\/vida_senti-320x220.jpg"},"full-post-thumbnail":{"file":"vida_senti-1900x748.jpg","width":1900,"height":748,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/08\/vida_senti-1900x748.jpg"},"post-thumbnail":{"file":"vida_senti-825x325.jpg","width":825,"height":325,"mime-type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2015\/08\/vida_senti-825x325.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":0,"credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":0,"copyright":"pict rider - 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