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I was raised as an assistant recently and there are certain situations in which I\u2019ve never gone through. I need advice from someone like you, who has more experience and has gone through certain situations in your spiritual life.<br \/>\nSince December I have had many struggles, little by little I started to let the anxiety come over me. Stealthily, without realizing it, it went on to my sentimental life.<br \/>\nI&#8217;ve been single since I came to Church, I began to see other couples and even went to a wedding, which made me feel anxious again. I never did anything wrong, nor let any man come close. I committed no sin &#8211; if you know what I mean &#8211; but sadness was coming over me and this anxiety was attacking me again.<br \/>\nI became desperate because I had no one to talk to, a boyfriend to vent with. I&#8217;ve always tried to serve my Lord with love and devotion, but to see how other couples were happy made me feel like God had forgotten me.<br \/>\nSo, I decided to expose my problem, I\u2019ve seen your work, how your helping the assistants and I admire that, I admire your strength and courage.<br \/>\nI apologize for this long story and any misspellings. I thank you again for your attention and for your help with this problem, even though the distance. &#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dear assistants, I decided to write about this example of this young girl, who is living with this \u201ctorment\u201d inside of her, because many of you may be going through the same situation. Yes! This anxiety is a torment within the person, and unfortunately, many have put their lives on a silver platter for the devil because of these sneaky feelings. It all starts as something small. It seems as if nothing\u2019s wrong, but slowly the problem becomes immense.<\/p>\n<p>Read my answer carefully, it may be an answer to many others who see themselves in this type of situation:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Pay attention! First of all, you do not have to apologize for anything, because that\u2019s the reason why I\u2019m here, to help and guide you.<br \/>\nI want you right now, while you read this, to create a revolt inside of you, to the point where all hell will shake with fear.<br \/>\nThe devil wants to make you fall, but don\u2019t give him that opportunity with these feelings anxiety.<br \/>\nGo against him with your sword of fire and do away with this evil in your life once and for all. Don\u2019t accept being a victim. Don\u2019t accept this suffering any longer!<\/p>\n<p>If the Holy Spirit is upon you, then set fire upon the devil which is causing this great confusing in your head.<\/p>\n<p>I ask you: Who is more important in your life? This sentimental problem? 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