{"id":262,"date":"2013-05-30T16:51:23","date_gmt":"2013-05-30T16:51:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/?p=262"},"modified":"2013-05-30T16:52:58","modified_gmt":"2013-05-30T16:52:58","slug":"assistant-who-has-something-against-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vivianefreitas.com\/en\/assistant-who-has-something-against-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Assistant, who has something against you?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><p class=\"intro\">I was talking to an Assistant this week and we spoke about many things.<\/p><br \/>\nI asked her if everything was okay, in terms of her relationship with others.<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nShe made a face, which showed signs that something wasn\u2019t 100% well in that area.<\/p>\n<p>She told me she had already resolved everything with that person, but that she clearly knew that the other person still had something against her &#8230; then I asked her:<br \/>\n&#8211; Have you spoken to her with sincerity to solve this issue?<br \/>\nShe replied promptly: It\u2019s not worth it. It\u2019s better to just leave it because whenever I approach her she seems distant as if she doesn\u2019t want to touch the subject.<\/p>\n<p>Given the circumstance I asked her to read with me something so important and profound.<br \/>\n&#8220;Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.&#8221;(Matthew 5: 23, 24)<\/p>\n<p>Did you understand? I asked her.<br \/>\n\u201cI can\u2019t have a bad relationship with anyone &#8230; right?\u201d She replied.<\/p>\n<p>I continued to explain: It is much deeper than being that.<br \/>\nIt clearly says: &#8220;&#8230; and there remember that your brother has something against you\u201d if I remember that my brother has something against me even though I don\u2019t, my offering doesn\u2019t mean anything because it is the same as if I have something against him. <\/p>\n<p>Just as I made her understand, I tell you, Assistants, your offering can\u2019t just be material it must be your all, in everything, regarding the work of God. 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